ScottishLad1978 Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 Hey there my name is Sandy and I am 32 years old and I live in Wolverhampton now but I am from Scotland. I was sexually abused by friends when I was 9 years old. It was like a sort of gang, and I was told that they would kill me if I told anyone. It has effected me badly as I started staying in and piling on the weight so that people would think I was ugly and not do it again. Also "maybe" as a result, I am not a openly gay man who cant seem to handle how to get a relationship. Anyway hope your all well and I hope so speak with you all soon. Sandy xoxoxoxox Link to post
dodo Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 Hi and welcome to AS best wishes karen Link to post
Becky Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 Hi Sandy, It is nice to meet you. I am sorry for the things that have brought you here, but glad you found us. Welcome to AS Becky Link to post
ScottishLad1978 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Share Posted June 13, 2010 thanks Karen and Becky x Link to post
Wishy Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 (edited) Hiya Sandy, welcome to AS, I'm Michelle I really hope you find the support you need here and I look forward to seeing you around the boards x Edited June 13, 2010 by Wishy Link to post
ScottishLad1978 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Share Posted June 13, 2010 Hiya Sandy, welcome to AS, I'm Michelle I really hope you find the support you need here and I look forward to seeing you around the boards x Thanx I hope to try and get my head sorted out if it ever can x Link to post
Wishy Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 Just take your time hun and post at your own pace everyone here is really nice and if you need any help with stuff regular members can't help out with, the mods are ace. You need ten posts to be able to use chat and you must ask a moderator if you require passwords to any of the appropriate protected forums x Link to post
~FOUND~ Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 Hi there. Welcome to AS. I hope you find this site to be helpful. Found Link to post
ScottishLad1978 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Share Posted June 13, 2010 Just take your time hun and post at your own pace everyone here is really nice and if you need any help with stuff regular members can't help out with, the mods are ace. You need ten posts to be able to use chat and you must ask a moderator if you require passwords to any of the appropriate protected forums x Thanks again Michelle, I will get on chat soon as I cant shut up sometimes lol so I will be posting a lot most times x Link to post
ScottishLad1978 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Share Posted June 13, 2010 Hi there. Welcome to AS. I hope you find this site to be helpful. Found Thanks Found for your lovely welcome. Also another BIG HELLO to all xxxxxxxxxx Link to post
calliehere Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 I am sorry for the things that have brought you here, but glad you found us. Becky Very well said Becky! Welcome to AS Sandy...my favorite part about AS is finding out that I was not alone. Its made a huge difference in my life and in my healing process. tvgc (take very good care) Callie Link to post
amethyst11 Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 hey there sandy welcome to AS Link to post
ScottishLad1978 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Share Posted June 13, 2010 I am sorry for the things that have brought you here, but glad you found us. Becky Very well said Becky! Welcome to AS Sandy...my favorite part about AS is finding out that I was not alone. Its made a huge difference in my life and in my healing process. tvgc (take very good care) Callie utvgc as well Callie lol x Link to post
ScottishLad1978 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Share Posted June 13, 2010 hey there sandy welcome to AS Hey there back Nicki x Link to post
ScottishLad1978 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Share Posted June 13, 2010 welcome sandy. Thanks you folks have been so supportive to me, I love you all x Link to post
briarrosa Posted June 13, 2010 Share Posted June 13, 2010 welcome to AS Sandy. I hope you are feeling comfortable. Link to post
sunshinee Posted June 14, 2010 Share Posted June 14, 2010 HI Sandy, Welcome to Aftersilence. My name is Mandy and I am apart of the Newbie Support Team here at AS. If at anytime you have any questions please feel free to send me a message. I am sorry for what you went through and the reason you had to come here. It's not easy, but I'm glad you are reaching out for support! Mandy Link to post
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