I Think I Will Dive Right In...

[Tamshusband]

I'm looking forward to reading your experiences of survival and from spouses regarding support for their mates. Me and my wife have been in therapy together for a few years and getting stronger each time. Her rape occurred in 2002. The perp was caught in april, finally pleaded guilty in July and sentence to 8 years last week.

I'm sorry, i edited this I should have read about what to put in my first post...

Edited September 8, 2008 by Tamshusband

[kimbees324]

Tamshusband,

I am really sorry for the circumstances that led you here but I am glad that you found your way to AS. There are a lot of really great people here who will give you the support and encouragement you are looking for and deserve. Take your time and look around. I'm sure that you will be feeling at home and comfortable here in no time. I look forward to seeing you around the boards. Take good care of yourself.

[Annabelle]

Welcome to AS!

Annabelle

[wishinuponastar]

I just wanted to say welcome to AS! Glad you have found us and hope you feel at home soon, sorry for the circumstances that bring you here but you are among friends here. Look forward to seeing you around the board! :hug: :hug: :hug:

[silenced42long]

Hi and welcome to AS!!

[angelic]

Hi and welcome to AS

[oui,mais]

hey!!

welcome to AS!!

if ok?

[Capulet]

Hello Tamshusband,

Welcome to AS. Your wife is very lucky to have someone like you by her side. It is always lovely to see supportive husbands.

Thank you for saying hello. I look forward to seeing you around the site.

Capulet

[Kaylee]

and welcome to AS. Your wife is really lucky to have you to support her.

[lacrymosa]

Hi Tamshusband,

I'm glad you've joined After Silence. It sounds like you're very supportive of your wife, and I'm glad to hear you are both going to therapy. I hope you find our community to be helpful and supportive. There are other secondary survivors here who offer support, as well as survivors.

If you have any questions, feel free to message me. Take care, and I'll see you around the site.

[macca]

welcome to AS

I look forward to seeing you around,

Take Care

Macca

[angel123]

and welcome to AS, hope to see you around...

Sharon x

[aperson]

and welcome!!!

[Maxxi]

Hi and welcome sounds like you are a very strong person and kind and supportive. Your wife is lucky to have someone like you in her life. I hope you carry on healing together. I offer my support and am here if you need any help, I look forward to seeing you around. Take care of both of you

[tuliptorn]

[probably]

Hello and welcome to AS

[choicesrgood]

Welcome! I am also new, and glad to hear your wife has such a strong advocate.

[Graice]

Hello Tamshusband

Welcome to AS Im glad you found us and your here with us you are amongst friends.I admire you for being so willing to be so supportive in the right way for your wife

hugs

graice