Hi

[Kitanah]

Hi Everyone

I don't know if I should label myself as a survivor because I am mostly here to get help because I suspect my daughter is being sexually abused.

I was molested twice by a old man who used to be our neighbour. I don't have much memory of it anymore and have put it behind me, so I chose secondary survivor. I don't know what to feel and think. I am going through so much at the moment deaing with emotional/verbal/physical abuse from my mother when I was a child, a divorce from an abusive, controlling ex, the recent violent death of my brother and trying to find out what is happening with my daughter and getting help.

I have posted in the secondary forum about my daughter.

Regards

Kitanah

[afireinside]

Hi Kitanah and welcome to AS.

After reading all that you have written, you are absolutely a survivor. I'm so glad to hear your daughter has you to support her.

[Venia]

Welcome to AS Kitanah

[dodo]

Hi and welcome to AS

best wishes

karen

[whitedove]

Hi there,

There is a book that I found good called Allies in Healing that may help you help your daughter. It has information concerning helping others heal from childhood sexual abuse.

I am glad you found After Silence and welcome

Whitedove

[holdingthechild26]

Hello there and Welcome to AS, I hope you find all that you are looking for here..this is a great group of individual. So once again Welcome!!

[AmyLyn]

Welcome, I hope you can find what you are looking for here.

take care

[Katia60]

Hi Kitanah,

Yes it sounds like you are a survivor. It only takes one incident of sexual abuse for someone to be victimized and to be a survivor. I hope that you can find the help that you need here.

Good and healing thoughts to you.

Kate

[Kitanah]

Thank you everyone.

[Guest]

Welcome to AS, Kitanah. I'm glad to see you here looking to support your daughter. Please take care when reading the board. Sometimes doing this can trigger things that you thought were put away and dealt with.