Light at the end of the tunnel

[DwindlingFlame]

Hello everyone! I am so happy I found this group. I am from the North East region of the US and have been struggling for about 10 years with what happened to me and after hitting a tipping point a few weeks ago I am finally at a point in life where I want to try to move on and forgive/forget as people like to say. I don't think I can ever forgive but I'm hoping to meet others who have gone through similar experiences and learn some healthy ways to cope and go about life. 😊

[WannaMoveOn]

26 minutes ago, DwindlingFlame said:

Hello everyone! I am so happy I found this group. I am from the North East region of the US and have been struggling for about 10 years with what happened to me and after hitting a tipping point a few weeks ago I am finally at a point in life where I want to try to move on and forgive/forget as people like to say. I don't think I can ever forgive but I'm hoping to meet others who have gone through similar experiences and learn some healthy ways to cope and go about life. 😊

Hello and welcome to After Silence, I am Wanna

My sincere sympathies on your trauma. Please know we believe you, and that it was not your fault. This is a safe place, you share whatever you want at your own pace. 

10 years is a long time to carry such a burden. I hope you find what you are searching for here. This site offers a wonderful support system by our kind members, where we can share everything related to healing to just simple things in life. 

And yes, learning healthy ways to cope is a big part of it, I really like your attitude about being here  

Every story is unique, but we tend to relate to each other here. You can receive support, exchange advice and take part in other survivor´s experiences. 

If you would need anything at all, do not hesitate to DM me or another staff member of choice. Please check your DM for an extended welcoming. 

Hope to see you around, 

- Wanna ☀️ 

[Finchy]

Welcome to AS @DwindlingFlame. I'm glad you found your way here! I'm so sorry, though, for what you've experienced. As Wanna said, 10 years is a long time to carry the burden that you have...it's tough. But it's never too late to start healing. And I think you're at the point where you're ready. You'll find a lot of very kind and supportive people here that can relate to you. You're not alone. ❤️ 

Sending you strength, comfort, and healing vibes! Take your time exploring and continue to reach out when you need to.  

-Finch

[MeBeMary]

Hi DwindlingFlame,

Welcome to AfterSilence. I am very sorry for all you've been thru and the struggles you currently still face. You have found a supportive community with many understanding and kind members. You are not alone.

It's a big step to reach out, so kudos for finding that strength to do so. Feel free to look around at your own pace and jump in when and where it feels the most comfortable for you. I wish you the best on this journey we call healing. 

Mary

[missfrier]

Dear dwindlingflame

 

Welcome to After Silence.  I am sorry to hear of the trauma you have been through!

 

Being here has helped me so much.   Everyone is so caring and supportive here.  I am proud of you for reaching out.  I know that is hard to do.  I also know that you will find that needed compassion and support here within our community.  Know we are here for you and we will listen whenever you would like to lean on us.    

 

Take care and please do not hesitate to ask for any help if you ever need it.  

[8888]

Welcome @DwindlingFlame to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me.