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My Introduction


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First off I want to say thank you to everyone who has taken the time to read my introduction.

I actually joined a while back but it has taken me some time to actually come out and talk to people about my experience. My experience was hard to deal with because at the time I was in a foreign country, didn’t speak their language and went there alone not knowing anyone. I had my drink spiked twice.. the second time was with a friend and we were both taken advantage of. In a timeframe of three months I was taken advantage of three times. It has been hard to deal with because I would tell myself “Was there something I could have done differently to change the outcome?”. Part of me is even embarrassed to admit because I feel like it makes me look pathetic. But I really hope to be able to be an encouragement to other people that we can all get through this and come out stronger. I hope this introduction was not too triggering for anyone, this is just a brief summary of what happened. Thank you all again and I am honored to be apart of this group.

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Hi Lily,

Welcome to AfterSilence. I am very sorry for the traumas you have endured. What happened to you wasn't right and you were not to blame. I understand the questioning, I think many of us do...and the embarrassment...like we actually did something wrong. You did nothing wrong...those who chose to hurt you did. They made these choices, not you, but I do get it.Do know that you will find tons of support and understanding here. Take your time to look around and decide where and what are good places for you to interact. There is no pressure.

I am very glad that you have found us. You are not alone. It actually is a very brave step to reach out...one of many forward steps forward I hope you find here. Wishing you well on this journey of healing.

Mary

:youcanheal: 

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Dear lily

Welcome to After Silence!!

I'm sorry for what you have been through.  I find it is easier to talk on forums then out loud.  Being here has helped me so much, even from the first time I ever posted.  It is still helping me - I have so much support here and I know you will, as well.  Here at AS, we are like a big family and our members are kind and non-judgemental.

I am sending you lots of safe hugs! 

Take care!

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Welcome @Lily123 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.   Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

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@Lily123 hello and welcome to After Silence! I am so sorry to hear of the traumas you have experienced that bring you here, but we are so glad you are here with us :) 

I know it can be so difficult to talk about things. It’s the thing I struggle with the most myself. Take your time and take care of yourself. 
 

sam🖤

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Hi, @Lily123 - 

Welcome to After Silence! I know it is scary to post for the first time, but I hope you feel welcome and heard. Your story is important and so are you. I am glad you took the first step to reaching out here. You're not alone! We are all here for you :) 

If you need anything or someone to talk to, feel free to reach out to me any time! I'm around! 

Best wishes,
Poppy

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