Hi!

[L.rain]

Hi! I’ve been having a tough few months; I’m not sure what I can do about it. A long time ago, I was raped and assaulted over the period of about a year. I thought I was fine, but I’ve been getting less and less sleep; I have these lows where I feel very sad. Very few people know about this time in my life, and I am not one to talk about my feelings. I did some research and found this forum, so I’m glad to be able to express myself here without talking to people I know. 

[marcyabadeer]

Welcome @L.rain. I had to comment because I am actually dealing with this very same thing at this time in my life and actually went through something similar it sounds like. This is a very open, comforting site to help you on your healing journey. So many forums about so many topics and I’m sure you’ll find a lot here that is helpful. One of them being, you are not alone! I hope this site can bring some relief and comfort to you in your time of need. Sitting with you if ok 💜

-sam

[MeBeMary]

Hi L.rain,

Welcome to AfterSilence. I am very sorry that you endured trauma over a year's period of time. There is nothing ok about anyone hurting you, but do know this site is filled with supportive and understanding members. Sometimes it may just take one trigger to realize that there is still healing to be done. I am glad that you found us and had the courage to reach out. Take your time looking around and feel free to interact with what you are comfortable with. I wish you nothing but forward healing steps on your journey.

Mary

 

 

[8888]

Welcome @L.rain to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

[missfrier]

Dear @L.rain

I am sorry for all that you have been through.   You have been so brave in reaching out to us, please know that this is never easy!   We are all here for you and we want to support you.  You're not alone in your healing journey and are always welcome to lean on us for extra support.  You can post as much or as little as you like.  We are here to support you in the way you need.  I have found this community to be very helpful.  Everyone is so understanding and non-judgmental and I am hoping you feel the same way once you've gotten to know us a little.   

All my best,
missfrier

[Tsabu]

Hi L.rain,

I am so sorry for the trauma that you went through.  

Welcome to Aftersilence, and I hope this wonderful site can help you as you heal.

Tsabu  

[Struggling88]

Hi, L.rain, and welcome! 

[Poppy_]

Hi, @L.rain - 

Welcome to After Silence! I'm sorry for the abuse you endured and what brought you here, but I''m hoping that you are feeling welcome here. Being able to talk about our experiences anonymously is an incredible thing and it can bring forth so much healing and support. 

I hope you'll be back soon to see all of these responses and feel the warm welcome. If you need anything at all, always feel free to reach out to me  

Hugs if you want them,
Poppy