New, just need to get it all out

[ariaflynn27]

Hey everyone, I'm new here. 

I just needed to find something where I could get it all out of brain so it will stop rotting me away, people who won't judge me. I hope I'm doing everything right. I just need to get my stories out of my head. 

[Starting A New Life]

27 minutes ago, ariaflynn27 said:

Hey everyone, I'm new here. 

I just needed to find something where I could get it all out of brain so it will stop rotting me away, people who won't judge me. I hope I'm doing everything right. I just need to get my stories out of my head. 

Welcome @ariaflynn27, this is the place to unload all of those things. This group is not judgmental of anyone. This site is meant to be a haven for telling your stories among caring individuals who only want to support you and encourage you. It pains me deeply that you underwent your ordeal. Nobody should have to go through that. But, to your credit, you have survived. Tell the people here what you need to so that you can cleanse your mind and body of the things that rotting. The young lady I am dating and hoping to marry, is a survivor like you. She is just now beginning to want to stop being defined by her scars and be identified by who she is. I am learning as much about this as anyone because I need to know how some of the triggers may effect moods or behaviors. So, as a secondary, this is just as vital for us to support you and her and every other survivor, but we secondaries need to support ourselves too with other secondaries. But start by getting you sorted first. Share with the group what you need to and make friends among other survivors. Draw strength from others who are going through or been through similar situations. I promise that no one will judge you for what you share.  

[goldraindrops]

Dear @ariaflynn27,

I am so sorry for the suffering that's brought you here - we know what it feels like to be "rotting" from the inside out.  I can guarantee that you will not be judged here.  This is a kind and supportive community full of people who care.

Take your time reading through the forums and posting whenever you would like.  

Blessings,

Gold Raindrops

[Dawn76]

 

4 hours ago, ariaflynn27 said:

Hey everyone, I'm new here. 

I just needed to find something where I could get it all out of brain so it will stop rotting me away, people who won't judge me. I hope I'm doing everything right. I just need to get my stories out of my head. 

Welcome to AS @ariaflynn27,

I'm sorry for what has brought you to AS. I hope you find the support you need. When you're ready to share your story no one will judge you. It's a safe place to let things out. 

Dawn

[MeBeMary]

9 hours ago, ariaflynn27 said:

Hey everyone, I'm new here. 

I just needed to find something where I could get it all out of brain so it will stop rotting me away, people who won't judge me. I hope I'm doing everything right. I just need to get my stories out of my head. 

Hi ariaflynn,

Welcome to AfterSilence. I am very sorry you experienced a trauma, but do know that you are not alone. You will find tons of support here. Our members are kind and understanding...and you will never feel judged. Take your time and look around. When you are ready, feel free to jump in. I wish you the best as you walk this path of healing.

Mary

 

[8888]

Welcome @ariaflynn27 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

[ariaflynn27]

Thank you so much for your responses, it already feels good just to know I'll be heard

[Struggling88]

Hi, ariaflynn27, and welcome! 

[Poppy_]

Hi, @ariaflynn27 - 

Welcome to After Silence!! You have found a very safe and supportive place to share your stories and get them out of your head  I also like to write to get stuff out! If you're interested, you can start a blog on the website and write whenever you want! Of course, there is always posting too if you prefer that. It's entirely up to you, I just wanted to share that with you! I have found such a love for blogging here. 

I hope that you are feeling welcome so far. If you need anything at all, please let me know! I'm here if you ever need anything 

Wishing you all the best and sending hugs if you want them, 
Poppy