New member. ~WR

[Whiteraven]

Hi. I'm a 17 year old,ace  female.  

Though a part of me always known what happened,and that he knew what no meant, and all the times I explained but we were young.  And for some reason I've been justifing him for years. 

I'm not too sure if I belong here..  

Edited July 30, 2016 by Whiteraven

[Alongroad]

You belong here Whiteraven. It is common to feel that way and question what really happened. Keep sharing when you feel comfortable. After silence is a wonderful resource.

[Whiteraven]

Thank you, a long road.  

It's been slightly hard cause we were both young, and in a relationship in the first place. I guess I figured that it was normal or something. 

[phoenixxx]

Welcome, Whiteraven. You do belong here. I am sorry that this happened to you. Many of us can relate to minimising it or being confused when a friend hurts us like that. 

[Whiteraven]

Thank you, 

I'm glad I found this place and you guys! It's scary to find peers that understand.

[reglois]

    if ok

[patriciag]

3 hours ago, Whiteraven said:

Hi. I'm a 17 year old,ace  female.  

Though a part of me always known what happened,and that he knew what no meant, and all the times I explained but we were young.  And for some reason I've been justifing him for years. 

I'm not too sure if I belong here..  

Welcome to AS, yes you belong here. I am sorry for what brought you here. You will find support here. For me the  important things is to know I am not alone, that others  understond what I was going through. We are here for you.

Patricia

[Whiteraven]

Thank you so much,patriciag

[phoenixxx]

7 hours ago, Whiteraven said:

Thank you, 

I'm glad I found this place and you guys! It's scary to find peers that understand.

I know...it feels good but at the same time it is so frightening. 

[MeBeMary]

9 hours ago, Whiteraven said:

Hi. I'm a 17 year old,ace  female.  

Though a part of me always known what happened,and that he knew what no meant, and all the times I explained but we were young.  And for some reason I've been justifing him for years. 

I'm not too sure if I belong here..  

Hi Whiteraven,

Welcome to AS. I am very sorry you experienced trauma, but you have found a very supportive site. You belong here, as you have been hurt. This is a good place if you want or need understanding and would like support in figuring how to cope with your struggles. We do that for each other, no matter the circumstances...tho him being young still gives him no right to hurt you. I wish you well as you start down the road of healing.

Mary

 

[Tannyluck]

Hi and welcome to AS! I hope you find our community informative/supportive. I wish you well on your healing journey.

[Whiteraven]

Thank you both!! 

I tend to do things alone, but I found you guys instead and I'm glad and thankful to meet so many people (with just being here about a week)  that are so helpful. 

[Struggling88]

Hi, Whiteraven, and welcome!  You belong here.  

[Whiteraven]

Thank you