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Lindy

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  1. Lindy

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    Hello Laura, and welcome to After Silence. I'm sorry for the reasons that brought you here, but I'm glad you have found us. Hugs, Lindy x
  2. Thank you, Samii. This has been edited.
  3. It's fine for me (I'm using the Tulip Skin). We're scheduled for a major update soon, and the entire look will change. We will let you know in advance.
  4. There have been several threads started on this subject. Currently, under the Healthy Healing Exercises subforum, there is an unsent letters thread which you may contribute to if you wish to do so.
  5. First of all, my apologies for the inconvenience these delays may have caused. Karen is right - there are dozens of registrations that need approval daily and that takes time. At times, I am unable to validate every single one of them right away as I have things in life to take care of, which is why we suggest waiting a minimum of 24 hours for approval. And at times, someone isn't approved because they did not receive their validation email. In that case, I wait a while in case the server is having a glitch or a delay, and resend validation emails. Most of the time, they are sent to a spam folder. After five days, the unconfirmed accounts are automatically deleted by the database, in which case the member would need to re-register and re-confirm their email address. So if you've registered and have had to wait days for approval, it is most likely because a validating email never reached your inbox. In that case, an email can be sent to us and we will take care of that for you. Hope this has answered your questions. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions and/or concerns. Lindy
  6. Chat should be fixed now. My apologies for the delay.
  7. That's a great suggestion, comet. We're definitely considering adding this option. Thanks!
  8. The reasons why guidelines in the "Share your Story" forum were originally changed were due to new replies to older threads were pushing new stories to the bottom, hence gone unnoticed and frustrating for those who just shared their stories in that forum. If a member were to update their thread in that forum, while it will remain in another page, it still shows up when you click, "View New Posts", therefore it does not get missed. At the present time, a second chat room is not possible but we will keep that in mind should our circumstances change. Should the staff decide to revert those changes made in the Share your Story forum, we will announce it. Thanks, Lindy
  9. This thread has been started for you. Take care.
  10. Wolfie, can you please PM me with specifics? I don't recall doing this for anyone - our software simply unallows us to do so. If I had a way to do it, I would.
  11. At the present time, we do not have the ability to change joining dates. Should anything change, I will let you know. My apologies for the inconvenience.
  12. I have some information that I previously put together for my survivor site. Let me see if I can find it and I will post it.
  13. Since dreams/nightmares are a part of dealing with the aftermath of abuse, would a sticky topic work?
  14. Hi SPQR, I have made your account inactive as requested. Feel free to send us an email at aftersilence.org[at]gmail.com should you wish to reactivate it. Take gentle care, Lindy
  15. Try clearing your cookies and cache on your computer. That usually takes care of it.
  16. I have fixed your account. In order to access the protected forums, I moved you to the correct usergroup.
  17. Fixed. My apologies for the issue as well as the delay. Thanks for your patience.
  18. Hi Jen, Welcome to After Silence. I hope you find the support you deserve here. Take gentle care, Lindy
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    Hi Pained, Welcome to After Silence. I hope you find the support you deserve here. Take gentle care, Lindy
  20. Booooooooooooooost! Please use the feedback form for CBS located here. Under "Regarding", scroll down until it reads, "Other, Not Listed". Type in your information and add a message. Hopefully we can all generate enough requests to allow CBS Cares to air an awareness commercial. It is a great idea. Thanks, Wren!
  21. Dear After Silence family, The private messaging feature on this board enables members to keep contact without sharing personal information such as e-mail addresses and IP numbers. That being said, please do not use the private messaging system to share personal information of any kind: Name, Address, Phone Numbers or any identifying information. Do not pressure anyone into providing you with their personal information. This is for YOUR safety. After Silence will not be held liable should you choose to share this information. You may share IM/E-mail information as long as: It isn't posted anywhere on the forum other than on your profile.It may be shared via PM as long as you're not being pressured to do so.It does not contain personal information such as full names and/or school/work information. Do not use the PM system to threaten, harass or spam other members. Engaging in actions mentioned above will result in termination of membership here at After Silence. Should you have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact a member of the moderating team. Thank you, Lindy
  22. I will add it thanks. Is safari the browser for macs? It is the default browser for Mac, yes, but it is also available as a download for Windows users.
  23. Forum added at the members' requests.
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