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About marevka

  • Birthday 01/23/1979

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  1. Tja k you Marevka for creating this forum. As a survivor of incest it really means the world to me.

    1. Melly218


      Thank you I meant

  2. What Did You Do For You Today?

    I went swimming and it was awesome!
  3. First Time Here

    Welcome to AS. There are a lot of really nice people here. Feel free to PM me if you need to talk to someone.
  4. Hi Everyone

    Welcome to AS. Reading the posts and finding out how similar others feelings are about what happened has helped me a lot. I'm sorry you have to be here, but welcome.
  5. Hi All

    Welcome to AS.
  6. Hi

    Welcome to AS!
  7. Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!

    I'm really sorry. I think people say things like that when they aren't ready to deal with their own issues. Maybe it triggered memories for her that she wasn't ready to deal with. Sending hugs and support to you.
  8. Breaking The Silence

    Hi, I'm new. I'm not sure how to introduce myself other than that I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse.
  9. Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!

    I am so sorry!! What a stupid/evil/insane/insensitive/creepy thing to say to someone.
  10. Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!

    Recently after talking to a friend about being sexually abused she said "what are you thankful for". Being thankful has its place but this was totally the wrong time to ask me that question. If someone's family was murdered would you ask them what they are thankful for? What a stupid and totally inappropriate thing to say. I'm so sick of people wanting me to pretend that everything is okay. My mom after I told her about the abuse said "are you sure you aren't misinterpreting things?" ARE YOU KIDDING?!?! "How could this happen in my house without me knowing?" --MAYBE BECAUSE YOU WERE ALWAYS DRUNK-could that be the reason?!?! Reading all of your comments has really helped me. It is so hard when people try to minimize what you are going through. Thank you!