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John

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  1. John

    Hello

    Hey Jilted Yellow, Welcome Back to AfterSilence, I am glad to see that after all this time you've decided to come back to AfterSilence, this is a lovely community, and we're really look forward to having you as part of our community I'm 18, so only abit younger then you, and their a alot of people here who have similar experiences to you and we're all on this journey to overcome those hurts togeather, so I'm looking forward to seeing you here at AS, and I really hope it helps you Feel free to PM me anytime
  2. Hey ScoutVillegas, Welcome to AfterSilence and also I better say, Welcome to 2009! I am sorry for what has brought you here, however I am very glad that you have come here to seek support, because I can assure you there is alot of support here at AfterSilence, and please know that here you're certainly not alone, there are many people here who can understand what you're going through, and what you've experienced, and how much that it all hurt, and we're here to walk this journey with you Please take gentle care of yourself, and feel free to PM me anytime and remember here you're not alone, we're all here with you
  3. Hey there Azaria, AfterSilence is quite a big community however, we do look out for each other, and we are certainly a close community, I am very glad you've decided to come here, and be apart of this community, because it's such a warm and validating place to be, however I am very sorry for what you've experienced which brings you here, never-the-less it is a very positive thing you're here, because you, along with other here like you, and who understand you, can heal togeather Welcome to AfterSilence! I am sure it's going to be wonderful having you here and please do feel free to PM me anytime :hug:
  4. John

    Newby

    Hey there babygirlsgone, I am sorry for the different types of abuse you've experienced, it's very wrong, and I am sorry that you've gone through that pain which nobody deserves to go through however it makes me happy to know you've decided to reach out to AfterSilence, because this place is a very supportive and caring place to be, where there are people who do understand the pain you've been through, and who have been through similar experience who you can share you're healing journey with and support each other through these hurts I look forward to having you here at AS, and I hope that you can fell at home here at AS too, and get the support you need, feel free to PM me anytime
  5. Hey brokentears, There is no need to worry about not having english as your first language, you actually seem to be doing quite well so far so I wouldn't worry about it Welcome to AfterSilence this is a very supportive and loving place, and I hope you find the support you're looking for here at AS, I look forward to getting to know you, and I am sure you'll fit right in here at the AfterSilence community John
  6. John

    Hi There

    Hey JHide, It's amazing to hear you live in Itally, it's ment to be such a beautiful place, I would love to see it someday ... don't worry we will be very kind to you here at AfterSilence I am glad to see you here at AS, and I hope that you find the support you deserve here at AS, AfterSilence is such a wonderful place, and the people here really understand, we've been where you are too, and please know you're not alone Take gentle care John
  7. Hey AlwaysRemember05, Welcome to AfterSilence, I am glad that you've come here to AS and I hope that you find this a healing place to be with people who really do understand the pain that you've felt, and we're all here to heal on this journey togeather, to support and validate each other through this I look forward to having you here, and I hope AS helps in your healing
  8. Hey AlwaysRemember05, Welcome to AfterSilence, I am glad that you've come here to AS and I hope that you find this a healing place to be with people who really do understand the pain that you've felt, and we're all here to heal on this journey togeather, to support and validate each other through this I look forward to having you here, and I hope AS helps in your healing
  9. They're very clueless, and the responses you put under the invalidating words are very appropriate, it is very sad that anyone could be so narrow minded as your ex-friends, and I am glad you no longer associate with them because you deserve better from your friends
  10. John

    Hi

    Hey Prudence, Welcome to AfterSilence Please know how you're feeling right now, coming to AfterSilence, and not being used to this place, it being a new place, with new people you don't know or trust yet, the scared feeling you're feeling now is very much normal, and I felt exactly the same way when I first joined AS, but please know that after a little while that does start to ease, and you do get more comfortable here, it just takes time I am sure one you've been here for a while you'll feel right at home - and if their is anything I can do to help with that please let me know I think the whole reason that AS is here, is so that we all know that we're not alone, and personally, it's help me to no end knowing that their are others out their who get me, and validate my feelings, it's helped me get through this period of my life. I wanna say thank-you for joining AfterSilence because by doing so, you're breaking the silence, and getting support and please also know I think you're very brave for doing so, and am very proud that you had I look forward to seeing you here at AS in the future, and I hope you find what you're looking for here at AS Take gentle care John
  11. John

    New

    Hello Ashli, Please know that here at AfterSilence we will always take you and the pain you've been through that has brought you here seriously, we care about every survivor here, and please know this place for me personally has been such a life saver, and I really hope that it proves to be the same for you I look forward to having you here at AS and please feel free to PM me anytime John
  12. John

    Hi, New Here

    Hey 9456, I am really sorry for what you've been through, it's so very wrong, but please know none of it is your fault and we're here to support you through this, AS is a lovely place where survivors support each others through both the good and bad times and find strength and validation from each other. I hope you find AfterSilence a healing place to be, Welcome
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  15. John

    Hey There

    Hi Caty, I am very sorry for what you've been through, I am 18, and I went through CSA as a child, I think it's so wrong when people hurt young poeple in the way you where hurt, it's just so wrong, but please know that you've done nothing wrong, and that I think you've done the right thing by coming here to AfterSilence and breaking the silence on what happened to you My friend does alot of riding and eventing, she's number 3 in our state, and I've always liked horses also, they brilliant, and I'm glad you're doing a job you love. I'm doing university also, but I'm doing mine through corrispondence? What are you studying? Anyhoo, it's been awesome meeting you, and I really hope I get to know you more as you spend more time here at AS, and please do feel free to PM me anytime Take gentle care of yourself John
  16. Hey traydog! I am from the Upper Hunter Valley area, in New South Wales Australia. In a small hamlet town in coal mining country. I am quite a regular in Sydney, my dad works for a coal company who has their head office in Sydney! I am so glad that you've found your way to our website and I hope that you find this place helpful and that you make many friends from both Australia and all over the world! I look forward to getting to know you, and please do feel free to PM me anytime John
  17. Hi Tamar Welcome to AfterSilence, this place is a very nice place, a kind of online sactuary for survivors, and everyone here is so supportive and enouraging for healing and I truely hope that you find the support you deserve from here at AS, and I hope that we can help you in your healing journey I am very glad you've come here and I look forward to getting to know you more as time goes by Feel free to PM me anytime John
  18. Hi MidnightSunshine531 & welcome to AfterSilence AS is a place where you can share as much or as little as you can about yourself and offer as little or a much support as you wish, so just feel free to go with whatever feels right for you, and please know we'll be here to support you also through those hard time Take gentle care John
  19. John

    New ! =]

    Hey Araya, Welcome to AfterSilence, I remember I was 16 when I first joined AfterSilence, and I remember that it quite scary at first, but after you've been here for a while this place really does grow on you, and then the people here just become like your online family, it's great I think you've taken a very positive and brave step in your healing from what you've experienced. I am very proud to see you here I look forward to having you as part of AS, and I hope that you find what you're looking for here at AS
  20. John

    Hello

    Hey FLGIRL8708, I don't think sexual violence really is something that someone can deal with quickly, I'm sorry, typically the healing process can day many year, howevere I do want to say that we're here for you every step of the way and the no matter how long this journey is, you will one day heal from what you've experienced. s John
  21. http://www.boystown.com.au/KHL/whoelsecanh...foraservice.htm This is a nation-wide directory of sexual assault services as well as other support services in Australia, and can help anyone anywhere in Australia find support services near them PM me for any further assistance.
  22. John

    New Here.

    Hey there I know my parents would be able to relate to how you're feeling, but please know nothing you've done, or your eldest child has done was wrong, there are some sick people in the world, but it's important to remember to leave your eldest in control of everything that happens pertaining to their abuse and just give them the support you need. Thank-you for helping your survivor child the way you have, and feel free to tell them about AfterSilence if you wish John
  23. Welcome to AS sharlap! I hope you find the support and healing you're looking for here at AfterSilence, I know many people can relate to how you're feeling and can offer support and understanding I look forward to seeing you here and please know you're not alone here
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