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    hugs are always an option if youre ok with it. *hugs*

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    i didnt know where to share this or even why im sharing it. 
    but there is one line that stuck out to me
    "r*pe is not about sex. it's about power and privilege"
    i dont know about the privilege part, but the way he looked at me, the way i felt judged and how he said "i can force you".........tells me enough........ 


  2. i do like this one, thank you ive thought about that but (talking about hugs and what you said), sometimes people dont feel comfortable with hugs right now and i cant understand that so i dont want to bother them with it, and ive thought about saying "sitting with you" but i havent been quite sure what that means. to me it feels like it means im here for you if you need to talk, because irl that would typically be how it works and i dont want someone to think that when ive barely been able to handle myself lately. it left me, with not much to say because of these reasons.
  3. i dont really have much to say but sometimes i want to give them a hug or something just to let them know that i read what they said and that i care. but because i dont say much, i just dont say anything. it would be nice if there was a way to kind of say "im here" without actually saying anything. (at least there isnt one that ive noticed)
  4. i encouraged it though......

    1. AKB


      The blame rests with the person that hurt you. Period. Sending you strength!

    2. mini.finch


      As AKB said, the blame is all on the other person that hurt you. It's not your fault. You didn't deserve it. Sitting with you, if you'd like. ❤️ 

    3. Iheartcupcakes


      No, love. You didn't. You did not ask for the pain you are in now...in any way. Sitting with you. 

  5. truamaversary 

    so im at another one of these (having 2, one at the beginning of summer and one at the end, really makes summer blow 🙄). 

    i havent seen or heard from him in years. and yet still just the thought of him is controlling. thinking about the way he towers over me, how hes stronger than me, i just colipase and give in. because of this thought, the possibility of ever seeing him again scares me. no one, makes me feel the way he does.... no one, sends my insides crashing in the way he does. and i dont know how to make this feeling go away.....

    1. BrightSide


      Im sorry your struggling. Traumaversaries suck 😞 Sitting with you, if you would like company?

    2. mini.finch


      I'm so sorry you're struggling with another traumaversary. :( Sending you lots of support and comfort. Sitting with you, too, if you'd like. ❤️ 

  6. i know that this section is for welcoming people and what im adding here really isnt that, but i thought it would be something good for everyone to see so i wanted to put it in a public place. plus thinking about it, it can kind of be taken as a welcome. as a reminder to everyone, member or not, that it can be ok
  7. it wasnt that bad...

    1. MeBeMary


      Sending hugs, if ok. :hug:  

    2. mini.finch


      Also sending hugs if you'd like. :hug:

  8. Feeling crushed and alone....

    1. MeBeMary


      Sending hugs and support. :hug: 

    2. mini.finch


      Sitting with you if you'd like. ❤️ Also sending hugs!

    3. Croft


      @MeBeMary @mini.finch thank you 🤗. While I'm not physically alone I'm sure it's understood the way disorders/problems you can't/dont want to talk about are.

  9. honestly i couldnt even tell. little things like that are difficult to get right anyway so its cool 👍
  10. well i should only need a welcome once 😅☺️
  11. @missfrier @MeBeMary @mini.finch @WannaMoveOn thank you everyone for welcoming me. 🙂
  12. here it goes i guess. hi 👋 (deep breath and just say what youre thinking) sorry if its a little all over the place its nothing recent (that i know of) that brought me here. it was years ago now (5-6). i dont even believe it was that bad (because it wasnt) but it was still something i guess. i joined in hopes that by feeling accepted it would help me realize that the way im feeling is valid and in turn help me heal. thats really all i can say for now, my brain feels frazzled.
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