[5 Words To Your Perpetrator]

You are sick, get help. 

[Welcome!]

Hey, 

your situation sounds very difficult and I imagine it is very exhausting emotionally. 
 

In my opinion, mental illness doesn’t excuse abusive or harmful behavior. It can explain some aspects, but if the diagnosed individual refuses to get help and change their patterns - they shouldn’t play the sympathy card. 

I can relate in a way, my abuser often says “well my brain works like this so this is why I treat you this way and you should understand and just go with it.” 

Anyway, I’m sorry that you’re experiencing this trauma. You are brave to deal with this in court and share with us in here. 

[I’d like to say hi]

So, hi :). 
 

I think something happened - or rather has been happening to me. And I don’t know what to do, I can’t talk to anyone in my environment. 
I’ve been much better for some time but now again I think I’m depressed. I realize nothing could substitute professional mental help, but I would like to try becoming a part of this community. 
It is “a” step for me, because for a long time I didn’t feel like I deserved support. I’m still not sure that I do, but I guess I really need some. Something. 
Also maybe I’ll be able to do offer anyone else a little  relief by just listening. I’ll do my best. 
 

Ok, so this is me. Hi, everyone. 

[Hi, new to the forum]

Hey, 

You asked a very important question. Is it? Possible to “get over”. I’m sorry that you are going though this, that you have to wonder about this. I do, too, and I have no idea how to answer that. 
I believe the replies from other users are true and helpful. Patience and self-care is the best we can do, let ourselves feel all the emotions and trust that it time there will be fewer and less intense triggers. 
 I wish you strength and support for this journey of healing. 
 

 

[hi, I'm new on here.]

Hello, 

I am also new and struggling. I hope this platform will be helpful to both of us. 
 

Sending you some energy of support and understanding, 

Galaxxxy