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Finchy

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  1. Welcome to AS, @rebelliouslyhopeful. I'm glad you found your way here. ❤️ I'm sorry for what you've experienced, and of course, what we've all experienced. You will find a lot of very friendly and supportive people in this community...you're not alone. Take your time exploring. I wish you all the best on your healing journey. -Finchy
  2. Welcome to AS, @ZiggyStardust. I'm glad you found your way here. I'm so sorry though for what you've been through. It's truly unfair that you've suffered, and that your country doesn't take such abuse seriously. You didn't deserve what happened to you. It was painful, cruel, and undeserved. You are now in a safe place in this community, though. You'll find a lot of very friendly and supportive people. You're not alone. ❤️ Best wishes to you on your healing journey! -Finchy
  3. Welcome to AS, LittleBat! Your name and profile pic are adorable. I'm glad that you found your way here and decided to join. Your therapist had a very good idea...my T also encouraged me to join a support group like this, and I couldn't be more thankful. AS is full of supportive and kind people. You can go at your own pace when it comes to talking about things. There's no rush. ❤️ Wishing you all the best. -Finchy
  4. Welcome to AS. ❤️ You'll find a lot of friendly and supportive people here in this community. You're not alone. I wish you all the best...take your time exploring, ok? -Finchy
  5. Hello and welcome, Mikki! I'm glad you decided to return. You'll find lots of supportive and truly awesome people here. You're not alone. ❤️ I wish you all the best! -Finchy
  6. Welcome to AS! I'm glad you found your way here, though I am sorry for the trauma you have experienced. You will find a lot of wonderful and supportive people in this community. You're not alone! Best wishes to you. -Finchy
  7. Oh very cool!! Bloodborne was my first. I actually haven't played any of the Dark Souls games...for some reason, I'm more intimidated by them. Elden Ring is really difficult, but it's so good. I love everything about it. (I just wish I were better at it haha!)
  8. Ahh, such classics!! I played them when they were on the DS...or 3DS...whichever they were on. Such good games! I'm playing too many games to list...so I'll just list a few...Elden Ring, Atelier Ryza 2, and Harvestella.
  9. Welcome to AS, Nikki. I'm glad you found your way here. Like Mary said, you are not alone. What you've gone through is not uncommon, unfortunately...you'll find others here that can relate. I wish you all the best on your healing journey. ❤️ -Finchy
  10. Hello and welcome to AS, @GJ2112! Nice to meet you. I'm glad you found your way here. I'm so sorry though that you have reason to be here...what happened to you was cruel and undeserved. It's good that you are on the road to recovery...I think that you'll find recovery to be helped a lot by being in this community. You'll meet a lot of very friendly and supportive people. You're not alone! (P.S. I see you like video games...what are you playing right now?) -Finchy
  11. Welcome to AS, @Eli01! Nice to meet you. I'm glad you found your way here. I'm so sorry though for what you've been through...but you're in the right place. I'm glad your therapist suggested finding a support group. I can't explain enough how much AS has helped me. My T also suggested this lovely place to help me heal more. Take your time exploring, and ask questions if you need to. Best wishes on your healing journey!! ❤️ -Finchy
  12. Hello and welcome to AS, Victoriamarie! I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've been through, though. It was undeserved and not your fault. I hope that you are able to find some healing by being here...you'll meet lots of friendly and supportive people. You're not alone! ❤️ -Finchy
  13. I just applied for a job way outside of my normal qualifications...but...I'm willing to try!

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      I know your work ethic and determination you have in the things you do. They would be so lucky to have you! :throb:  

      Sending positive vibes for an interview, followed by a "when can you start?" reply.  :up:

       

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you @MeBeMary!! ❤️ Aww, you're so wonderfully sweet. 😭 I appreciate your confidence in me! I hope that it all goes well! So far no word back yet...but I'm crossing my fingers. :crossfingers:

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Oh, don't sweat it! 

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  14. Welcome to AS, @Mammaof2. I'm so sorry for what happened to you, and so recently, too. I'm glad you found your way here, though. You didn't deserve what happened to you...it was cruel and unfair...I hope that you're able to make some sense of things through support here. You're not alone. ❤️ Wishing you best on your healing journey...there will be ups and downs, but try to never give up. We're here for you! -Finchy
  15. Welcome to AS, @Rosebudd! I'm glad you found your way here. I'm so sorry though for what you've been through. Flashbacks are terrible things. You're not alone. You'll meet lots of friendly and supportive people here...I hope that we're able to help you heal. Best wishes to you. ❤️ -Finchy
  16. Welcome to AS, Clementine. (I love the name!) I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry for what you've experienced. It was undeserved and not your fault. And now for your therapist to be leaving is a real shame. I absolutely know what you mean about finding affordable mental healthcare...I'm sure most of us do. I wish you all the best. I hope you don't have to be on the waitlist for long. In the meantime, I hope that you are able to find solace here in our community. You'll meet a lot of very friendly and supportive people. You're not alone!! ❤️ -Finchy
  17. I love your kitties profile pic! Awww!! :) 

    1. Six_times_seven

      Six_times_seven

      Thanks @Finchy They are Ruth and Marie 

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      How sweet! Ruth and Marie are lovely. ❤️ 

    3. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      They look like my Shyla's cousins, twice removed or something. Gotta love 'em! :throb: 

       

       

  18. Finchy

    Hi.

    Welcome to After Silence, @missi!! I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've been through, but it's wonderful that you've decided to seek support with therapy and support groups like us. I think you will get a lot of help here...there's a ton of supportive and friendly people in this community. You're not alone! ❤️ I wish you all the best on your healing journey. -Finchy
  19. Finchy

    Hello!

    Welcome to AS, Neems. ❤️ I'm so glad that you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've experienced, though. It was not your fault, and very undeserved. I'm so sorry. But please know that healing is possible, and you will find a lot of friendly and supportive people in this community. You are not alone. I wish you all the best on your healing journey. ❤️ -Finchy
  20. Welcome to AS, TH! ❤️ I'm glad you found your way here. I wish you all the best on your healing journey. Take all the time you need. I'm sorry for what you've been through, but you will heal...no matter how long it takes. -Finchy
  21. Welcome to AS, @Lost mum. ❤️ Glad we could get that fixed for you. I'm sorry for what you've been through that brought you here, but I'm glad that you found us. I wish you all the best on your healing journey. -Finchy
  22. Welcome back @JoJoy. ❤️ I'm glad you returned. I also suggest the places Mary brought up. I wish you all the best on your healing journey.
  23. Hello and welcome to AS, @Lazy Duck!! I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've been through, though. It was not your fault, and it was undeserved. It can take a long time sometimes to realize something was sexual assault...you're not alone in that. Took me around 20 years! Anyway, take your time exploring the site. You'll meet lots of friendly and supportive people. I wish you all the best on your healing journey! -Finchy
  24. Why are you here still? You ruined so many things.
  25. Welcome to AS, corpsegirl! I'm glad you found your way here. ❤️ I'm sorry for what you've experienced, though. It was not your fault, nor was it deserved. Please know that you're not alone...you'll meet a lot of very friendly and supportive people in this community. I wish you all the best on this healing journey! -Finchy
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