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  1. *sending safe hugs to those in need*

    1. Enigma87

      Enigma87

      Aww, how kind of you💕 I could use them tonight. Sending some back to you as well:hug:

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you for the hugs back @Enigma87. ❤️ I needed them today. I'm glad the hugs helped you last night. :hug:

    3. Field8
  2. Could use pocket riders tomorrow. I have my psychiatrist appt, and I'm always anxious about talking to him. Any support is welcome. :) 

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    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Good job asking those questions! I know how difficult asking any doctor anything. You did it tho! 🤗 

      BTW...send me your garment. I will have it dry-cleaned for you. 😉

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      Good on you @mini.finch!! I’m proud of you 

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      @MeBeMary Thank you, sweetie! I was such a mess asking him, but I did it. Phew. And hehe, yes, I might need my outfit cleaned, thanks to all the snacks you pocket riders brought! :lol: 

      @Doll6 Thank you, Doll. :) 

  3. Could use some hugs right now, if anyone has some to spare. :needahug:

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    2. Field8

      Field8

      How are you feeling today?

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      @Field8 I am doing ok. Minus migraine and chronic pains. Some anxiety but not as bad. Thank you for asking. :)

    4. Field8

      Field8

      I’m so sorry about the migraines. I have horrible ones to the point I had to take medical disability. Take care.

  4. Could use support. Feeling shaky tonight.

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you @Charlee I am actually not doing great tonight, so your offering support is very helpful. ❤️ 

    3. Charlee

      Charlee

      aw im sorry to hear that :hug:

    4. orangegiraffe

      orangegiraffe

      I hope today is a better day for you ❤️  :console:

  5. Don't forget to check out the new AS Polls featured in the Well-Being section! :) There's been 2 so far!

  6. Happy Easter! *hands out chocolate bunnies and eggs* :lindybunnie:

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Happy Easter! 

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      Happy Easter!! 

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      :lindybunnie::bighug:❤️ Thanks, everyone! I hope you're all having a lovely day!!
       

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  7. Happy Hugs-Giving! Check out the Hugs-Giving thread to get hugs and give hugs! ❤️ 

     

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      It's news to you, right?? Hahaha! :lol: Check it out lol! :roflmao:

    3. sk8er

      sk8er

      Aww that's so sweet! I'll check it out too

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      Yay! I hope it brings a smile to your face @sk8er. :) 

  8. Having bad anxiety today. Could use some hugs and sitters.

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    2. Field8

      Field8

      How did everything go?

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you so much @Field8, @WendyAlone, and @sisyphus. You're all so sweet. ❤️ Truly it's MY honor to know you all.

      Thanks for asking, Fieldy. It went ok-ish...as I thought, my doctor put me down about my weight. Insisted I change my eating habits and exercise more. She also still refused to believe I have as many migraines as I do. I need to get a new doctor. 

    4. sisyphus

      sisyphus

      Ugh. Why don't doctors believe us? 

      I did finally find a trauma sensitive doctor, same way I did with the therapist. I made a list of standards and discussed that I have medical trauma before making the appointment. It still took a couple of tries.

      Blessings with healing your body! 

       

  9. How is it March already? Ugh.

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    2. Six_times_seven

      Six_times_seven

      Here's me just wishing it was May (and the end of the school year) already.  

    3. Pink Sky

      Pink Sky

      Oh I'm sorry that this time is triggering for you Finch. Sending hugs :hug: It's weird the way time passes differently throughout the year. I always feel like January is so looong and then February always disappears in a flash.

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you, everyone. ❤️ :hug: Sending you all support back.

  10. I feel unbelieved by my psychiatrist. I just had a tough appointment. I feel like I was explaining things over and over again, and he didn't believe me. I had to keep talking. I'm feeling very exhausted and anxious now. *sigh*

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    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      sitting withy you. i am glad you aware he didnt believe you. i know it is hard but it is a good sign that you are aware of this. 

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you for sitting with me, @LuthienTinuviel. I'm glad you think that it's a good sign. I didn't realize that it was, honestly. So for you to say that is helpful to me. Thanks again. ❤️ 

    4. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      yeah. i mean it stinks that you dont feel believed co si think you should by someone who is supposed to help you. but an assault memory came back meaner one time when ithought my T was confirming that it wasnt a big deal. it was but i had explaiend to her very vaguely. so im here trying to pick up and do it on my own. if i was her i would have tried to encourage more clarification to find out that yes it was abuse.

  11. I hate feeling how I'm feeling right now.

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    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      Sorry I’m late! Sending safe hugs 

    3. sk8er

      sk8er

      Sorry about that, hang In there 🌟

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you @Doll6 and @sk8er. ❤️❤️ 

  12. I hate it when seasons change...especially from winter to spring/summer. It brings a lot of triggers with the warmer months. :( 

    1. Capulet

      Capulet

      Sitting with you, @mini.finch - I have the same issue with the transition into fall.  For me, the fall brings back a lot of unpleasant thoughts and feelings. 

      I am hoping this year is a little easier with you, for you've got us all to support! ❤️ 

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you @Capulet. I'm sorry that transitioning to fall is hard for you. It seems we're the opposite as far as the seasons go, but it is difficult either way. *sends safe hugs*

      True! I've got all of you with me. ❤️ Thank you so much for the support and for sitting with me. :hug:

  13. I just applied for a job way outside of my normal qualifications...but...I'm willing to try!

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    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      I know your work ethic and determination you have in the things you do. They would be so lucky to have you! :throb:  

      Sending positive vibes for an interview, followed by a "when can you start?" reply.  :up:

       

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you @MeBeMary!! ❤️ Aww, you're so wonderfully sweet. 😭 I appreciate your confidence in me! I hope that it all goes well! So far no word back yet...but I'm crossing my fingers. :crossfingers:

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Oh, don't sweat it! 

  14. I love your kitties profile pic! Awww!! :) 

    1. Six_times_seven

      Six_times_seven

      Thanks @Finchy They are Ruth and Marie 

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      How sweet! Ruth and Marie are lovely. ❤️ 

    3. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      They look like my Shyla's cousins, twice removed or something. Gotta love 'em! :throb: 

       

       

  15. I want to curl into a ball and hide. Just one of those days.

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you, everyone. :bighug: ❤️ Very much appreciated.

    3. Enigma87

      Enigma87

      Sending you support and sitting with you @mini.finch ❤️

    4. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Big hugs. :hug: :bighug:  :hug:  

  16. I wish I could love this weather. I wish it wasn't corrupted. 

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you, Enigma. ❤️ Much appreciated. :hug:

    3. poet-survivor

      poet-survivor

      Sitting with you! I hope that the weather passes soon. ❤️ 

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you @poet-survivor ❤️ 

  17. Listening to the Frozen movies' soundtracks...it's my comfort zone. I need this.

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you @Doll6. I'm really a mess tonight. I mean, I almost cried just trying to scoop ice cream. Like so frustrated, so weak feeling...in life, in general...that having trouble scooping ice cream put me over the edge (nearly).

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      I’m sorry you feel so fragile @Finchy. Please try and be gentle with yourself. I assume this time of year is tough for you with your family too 😔

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      @Doll6 Thank you. Fragile is the right word. I'm doing my best. *hugs* I love Christmas...always have...but any time my brother is around more is very stressful and hard, yes. He'll have days off for the holiday, so I'll have to see him more. Not looking forward to that. Christmas is a mix of emotions.

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  20. Podiatrist on thursday. Finally. Hoping she helps...pocket riders, please? :) 

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Hehe, thank you, Mary!! I need my feets for shadow dancing alright!! 😄 Hoping these shots will help. She said it's the "gold standard" for treating plantar fasciitis, so I trust her. :) 

    3. 8888

      8888

      So happy to hear it went well!

    4. Finchy
  21. Praying for all those affected by the tragedy in Itaewon...

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  22. Really craving chocolate right now...:chocolate:

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    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      Haha yum! I had a chocolate block with nuts in it. My favourite! 

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      I'm not a huge fan of nuts, but that still sounds yum! Any chocolate is great. 😄 

    4. Doll6

      Doll6

      Haha exactly. Any chocolate is great 

  23. Really overwhelmed with work rn. I was sent so many projects. :( How can I do them all?

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you for the encouragement @Enigma87. ❤️ I'm trying. I still have 3 projects to do...one due tomorrow, maybe 2 due tomorrow actually, and one due wednesday. They're time-consuming and stressful. But I am working on one thing at a time.  

      I am doing ok...still feeling overwhelmed, but I know I'll get through things somehow! :sweat:

    3. Enigma87

      Enigma87

      I’m sorry you have so much on your plate. :( I’m glad to hear you’re doing okay, although still overwhelmed. I’m glad you are reaching out to us here though. We are with you and I wish you success in getting your projects done. ❤️ Still sitting with you and sending my support!

    4. redadmirals

      redadmirals

      I'm hoping you are feeling better, mini!

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