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Finchy

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  1. Hello and welcome to AS @Maura! I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've experienced, though, and that you go through flashbacks and have CPTSD. You'll meet a lot of very friendly and supportive people here...you're not alone. Take your time exploring and post when you need some help. ❤️ Wishing you all the best on your healing journey! -Finchy
  2. Welcome to AS, juju. ❤️ I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm sorry for what you've experienced. No one should go through what you've gone through. I'm so sorry that you struggle with PTSD. I hope that EMDR therapy will continue to help you. It's really difficult to heal, but you can do it. We're all here for you. You're not alone! Best wishes to you on your healing journey. ❤️ -Finchy
  3. Welcome to AS @D. C.! I'm glad you found your way here. I am sorry for what you've experienced, though. It was cruel and undeserved...and having an anniversary coming up is always super difficult. You're not alone in this. We're all here to help you. Awi gave good suggestions for the traumaversary. Definitely reach out here. ❤️ Treat yourself with a ton of kindness and self-love, ok? Wishing you the best on your healing journey. ❤️ -Finchy
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    Hello

    Welcome to AS @Tahnya! I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry for what you've gone through. It was cruel and undeserved. A parent is supposed to love and protect you, not harm you in the way your father did. I'm so sorry. You're not alone, though. You'll find a lot of friendly and supportive people in this community, many who can relate. Sending you lots of well wishes and support on your healing journey. ❤️ -Finchy
  5. Ah ok. Thank you for clarifying! I'm sorry for assuming. I'm glad you found this thread then!
  6. I'm sorry I can't relate, but I wanted to point you in the direction of our DID support forum. http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?/forum/129-did-support-questioning-forum/ It might be helpful to post there as well. ❤️ Sitting with you.
  7. Welcome to AS, K. I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm sorry for what you've been through. You're not alone and will find lots of friendly and supportive people here. Wishing you all the best on your healing journey. ❤️ -Finchy
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    Hi

    Hello and welcome to AS, @theonlyme! I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry that you have reason to join. Repressed memories are very difficult to handle...you're definitely not crazy, and I know in a way that seems like an worse of the two evils. Crazy or actually was abused. Both are terrible...I'm sorry again. You aren't alone, though. You'll find a lot of very friendly and supportive people here that can relate to you. I wish you all the best on your healing journey!! -Finchy
  9. Welcome to AS, Gracie. I'm so glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've experienced, but you aren't alone. It sounds like you're working on healing, which is great. I think being here will boost your healing even more...you'll find a lot of very friendly and supportive people in this community. Take care, and best wishes on your healing journey! -Finchy
  10. Happy 2024! May this year treat us all better than previous years have. You deserve goodness and love. ❤️ 

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Of course, @PixieCat. ❤️ :) 

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      You deserve goodness and love too Finchy ❤️

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you so much @Doll6. ❤️ 

  11. Welcome to After Silence, Healing trauma. ❤️ I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry you have reason to be here in the first place. What you experienced was cruel and undeserved...absolutely not your fault at all. I understand it can be tough to discuss your trauma, but you're doing really great just joining AS. That is a huge first step towards healing! I wish you all the best. (And Mary did great explaining how it works here!0 -Finchy
  12. Welcome to After Silence. ❤️ I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've experienced, but you are not at fault. What happened to you was cruel and undeserved!! As for your English, no worries. You sounded perfectly fine here in your intro. We have people from all over the world here. You're not alone! Best wishes on your healing journey. -Finchy
  13. Sending lots of comfort and support during this season.
  14. Welcome, Rowan. I'm glad you found your way here. ❤️ I wish you all the best on your healing journey. -Finchy
  15. Welcome to AS, thutch. I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've gone through. It was cruel and unfair, and also, not your fault. You were a child. As a child, you didn't have control over the situation. The fault is all on the perpetrator, not you. I'm sorry again for your experience, but you aren't alone. You'll meet lots of friendly and supportive people here. Best wishes on your healing journey! ❤️ We're here for you! -Finchy
  16. Hello and welcome to AS, @Princessz! I'm glad you found your way here. You're not alone. You'll meet lots of friendly and supportive people in this community. ❤️ I wish you all the best on your healing journey! -Finchy
  17. Welcome to AS @juanmata. I'm glad you found your way here. I'm so sorry for what you experienced. It was not your fault, and you did nothing wrong. I'm glad you are in therapy now and seeking help. I wish you all the best on your healing journey. -Finchy
  18. Welcome to AS @P.Treehugger! I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've experienced, but please know that you aren't alone. You will find lots of supportive and kind people here. It's a safe place to get out what you need to get out. Expressing your emotions and talking about your story here can help a lot. ❤️ We're here for you! Best wishes on your healing journey. -Finchy
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    Hello!!!

    Hello and welcome to AS, 4sa! ❤️ I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've experienced, but you aren't alone. I'm glad you decided to introduce yourself, too. I see you like video games...what are you playing right now? Or do you have some favorites? I'm a gamer, and I always love seeing other members here that mention video games! 😄 Best wishes on your healing journey. -Finchy
  20. Finchy

    Hi!

    @Xander Just wanted to say I love your Katamari pfp! Cute!
  21. Finchy

    Hi!

    Welcome to AS, @Xander! I'm glad you found your way here. You're really brave to join and introduce yourself. Take your time exploring, and feel free to ask us any questions you may have. You're not alone. I'm sorry for what you've experienced...I wish you all the best on your healing journey. ❤️ -Finchy
  22. Hello and welcome to AS @raji. I'm glad you found your way here. ❤️ I'm so sorry for what you experienced. It sounds horrendous and so frightening. You didn't deserve what happened to you. I'm glad that you're beginning to heal. We're all here to help...you'll find a lot of very friendly and supportive people here. Wishing you all the best on your healing journey! -Finchy
  23. Hello and welcome to AS, @groovy! I'm glad you found your way here. ❤️ Also, your pfp of your cat is adorable. Assuming it's your cat. Either way, love it. I'm so sorry for what you've experienced. It was undeserved. Sometimes it takes us a long time to admit that something was abuse...but now that you've made it there, you can start your healing journey. You'll meet lots of very friendly and supportive people here that will help. I wish you all the best. ❤️ -Finchy
  24. Welcome to AS @mushroom.dance! ❤️ I'm glad you found your way here. I'm also very proud of you for starting on your healing journey. That is a huge step!! I wish you all the best. We're here for you. -Finchy
  25. Welcome to AS, Edward. I'm glad you found your way here! I'm so sorry for what you've experienced, though. But you're right...it's long enough to carry around someone else's demons. The fault is not yours. I'm glad you realize that. I hope that this community will be able to help you as it has helped me and many others. You'll meet lots of very friendly and supportive people here. You're not alone! Best wishes on your healing journey. -Finchy P.S. I removed your last name from your post. It's best to be more anonymous.
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