Jump to content


New Member
  • Content Count

  • Joined

  • Last visited

Profile Information

  • Gender

Previous Fields

  • MembershipType

Recent Profile Visitors

The recent visitors block is disabled and is not being shown to other users.

  1. My trauma occurred fifteen years ago and I had repressed the reality of it until I had a flashback two months ago during intimacy with my spouse. Since then I have been overwhelmingly depressed and anxious. I’ve seen a counselor for three years and since the flashback a therapist for this trauma. I don’t know how to explain to my spouse that ANY instance of him suggesting, expecting, hoping or initiating physical contact or intimacy is a huge trigger. It is so different from our normal. Physical touch is affection to him and we have “successfully” been intimate a handful of times since the flashback and this is causing him confusion on how to act. I don’t know when I’ll be triggered or not and I want our intimacy to continue when possible. I’m so confused and feel like such a disappointment all of the time. This is so hard.
  • Create New...