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Hi @madeline_h. Happy you found your way here. I'm sorry to hear about your relationship, but I hope you find some peace here. 🤗

Thanks @Poppy_. Much appreciated ❤️

@snmls Thank you, I really appreciate it. @capulet Right? Honestly, even when you tell the story... How in depth would it be to tell the whole thing. I just stayed at my cousin's house last night, and I've talked to her in depth about everything, and she still was asking questions like, "I can't believe that happened, how did I not know?" Like. The story is too long.

Thank you all for your replies. I will definitely reach out if I have any questions or anything like that. Thanks. @capulet Isn't it crazy. When you tell people what happened, they're just like... Isn't it obvious? Well, the mind is a funny thing, isn't it?

Hi there @fire4. Glad you started reaching out to a community. Hope it starts to bring you some peace. ❤️

Thanks Mary, Yeah, I hope that. I like to read a lot of psychology books to get me by, and the one thing they keep mentioning is that community helps. Soooo, here I am. What's also very crazy is that everyone on here has dealt with the same issue. I'm sure we'll all be able to help each other. Thanks for your reply! Panda

I'm sorry for what you're going through. I totally get what you're saying. When I was raped, suddenly I lost all of my best friends that I had had for over 9 years. It's still hard to wrap my head around. But hopefully they will be replaced by people who would never do that to you.

Hi there, I guess we can call me Panda. It's been almost exactly 10 years since my abusive relationship started, and now I'm older, away, and am raising a disabled child that has half of my abuser's genes. 6 yrs of custody battles later, and I'm still not over everything. Hoping joining a community will help me figure things out. How is everyone?