I’m relatively new to this site myself but I don’t think it would cause too much trouble if you’re here. You might even learn how to help with someone you know who tells you that they’ve been sexually assaulted or abused. Victim blaming is quite common among survivors and people that they tell their stories to. I was victim blamed myself and I tried so hard to repress what happened to me because I was never told at the time it wasn’t my fault. It was a horrible seventeen years I went through repressing everything and trying to force myself to forget because I truly believed if I denied anything had happened and made myself forget everything then it would be gone forever and never had happened.