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BrightSide

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  1. Maybe you might feel comfortable with (:bighug) (:console) (:notalone) Or a heart ๐Ÿ’› ๐Ÿ’š ๐Ÿ’™
  2. So lovely to see you back, sending much love ๐Ÿงกย B

    1. marcyabadeer

      marcyabadeer

      thank you for your kindness and support B ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒป

  3. So nice to see you Mave โค๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’›โค ๐Ÿ˜

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    2. Mave

      Mave

      Iโ€™m doing pretty well. Plodding on too. Hehe.

    3. BrightSide

      BrightSide

      Im glad you're doing ok, and hat you have popped back, you were missed โค

    4. Mave

      Mave

      Thank you, BrightSide. That means a lot. Iโ€™m happy to be back. โ™ฅ๏ธ

  4. Thinking of you and hoping you're OK? Missing you ๐Ÿ’œย ๐Ÿ–คย ๐Ÿ’™

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      :throb:ย  :hug:ย  :throb:ย ย 

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    2. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Ditto this. Sending you support and hugs.ย :hug:

  5. Brutally honest, im imagine very hard to say, hard to hear and know that pain. Thank you for sharing. I hope others hear, learn and understand. I hope you are safe today? Sitting with you for support if you would like? ๐Ÿ’œ B
  6. Exam done, :party: I will be drinking tonight. :wine:Love you all ๐Ÿงก

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    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Congrats!!!ย :party:ย So proud of you!! Celebrate away!

    2. Capulet

      Capulet

      Enjoy!!!!! ย Congrats on finishing the exam! โค๏ธย 

    3. abhaya

      abhaya

      Congrats!ย  Yay for getting through it!

  7. Although I am addicted to being here I am taking a couple ofย days off to study and take an exam. :type: See you at the weekend ๐Ÿงกย B

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    2. snmls

      snmls

      Good luck with your exam!

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Good luck on your exam!ย :luck:ย Also lol to that meme! So good! We'll miss you!

    4. Capulet

      Capulet

      Lots of luck with your exams! ย You've got this! โค๏ธย 

  8. Its myย 1 year AS anniversary today :bubble:

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    2. BrightSide

      BrightSide

      Thank you ๐Ÿ’›!

    3. mini.finch
    4. snmls

      snmls

      :loveas:ย we are lucky to have you. Thanks for all you bring to the forum.ย 

  9. BrightSide

    #it's not OK

    It's not OK @Novu im sorry. Sitting with you for company if you would like? ๐Ÿงก B
  10. BrightSide

    #it's not OK

    Its not ok... To do anything to me without my consent...ever!
  11. BrightSide

    #it's not OK

    Its not OK .... To pretend its doesn't happen - 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys are sexually abused 20% of women and 4% of men have experienced sexual assault post age 16
  12. BrightSide

    #it's not OK

    its not OK... to suffer alone, please reach out
  13. BrightSide

    #it's not OK

    its not OK... to not refer a sexual abuse survivor to a more qualified and healing therapist if you are not meeting their needs. We are more than just a wage.
  14. BrightSide

    #it's not OK

    its not OK... to manipulate, coerce, groom, control or force
  15. BrightSide

    #it's not OK

    # its not ok ..... To silence me because you dont want to hear it! # its not OK..... To blame me! # Its not OK..... To use me for your gratification!
  16. BrightSide

    #it's not OK

    1st to 7th February 2021 is Sexual Abuse and Sexual Violence Awareness Week. This is not my personal Blog it is all of ours. Please add your # it's not OK ...
  17. Support is always available at AfterSilence all you ever need do is log on! And if words can not be found, try an emoji

    :console:ย :sadang::tantrum:ย ๐Ÿ’ฃ

  18. Please send brainy dust .*.,'**',.*,.'.*'.,* so I can complete this essay on complex trauma

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    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      I'm sure it is or will be great! Not an easy topic, but I have faith in you, Bright! :up: ย 

    3. abhaya

      abhaya

      Sparkly glittery brain confetti for maximum essay writing capacity headed your way!ย  You got this, @BrightSide!ย  ๐Ÿค“

    4. BrightSide

      BrightSide

      Thank you @Capuletย @MeBeMaryย and @abhayaย for your support. Im getting there slowly. Hopefully finish the content by the end of the week. It has beenย a tough one.

  19. @Free4ever and @Tee06 and ALL members with message issues Im sorry that you can not access messages and not talk directly to your AS friends. I wanted to let you know that I have set up a thread for chat and support while messages are down ๐Ÿงก B
  20. @Capulet I am not complaining just letting you know. I do not have the options to access my messages, notifications or my profile on my mobile but I do have these options on my laptop - both using chrome. I have tried logging out and back in again on my phone which wasn't easy when you cant access you own profile! it is still not working I know that others are also not getting access to these at all, despite downloading other browsers. Anyway, really - IT IS JUST SO GOOD TO HAVE AS BACK. Thank you so much for all that you have done to get us back up and running again. ๐Ÿงก B
  21. So glad to be back! I missed you all!

    1. snmls

      snmls

      I'm glad the site is back too!ย 

  22. Ive only just seen a message you wrote to another member - filled me with happiness to see you back, was about to message you when I saw this thread - WELCOME BACK POPPY!! I missed you ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›
  23. Please pocket ride with me - its going to be a difficult morning :(ย and I could use AS members support ๐Ÿงกย B

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    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      No problem, sounds good, honest I'm not doing so great and almost everyone has covid so yeah it's sucks and family are starting to annoy me.

    3. BrightSide

      BrightSide

      @Free2Flyoh no, did you get it too? I really hope all of your symptoms stay mild! :getwell:ย 

      It must be hard all cooped up together, keep coming here for company and distraction, video call and phone other friends and family so that you do not feel so trapped and stuck talking to the same people.

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      I don't really know, at night time I get like flem on my chest but during the day I'm usually fine, it's a very strange virus cause one member of the family had symptoms for two days then all of a sudden their better again, but yeah definitely a strange virus.

      It is hard, mainly cause certain siblings can't go a day without annoying someone, so far we've only had one person that's been cleared so they can go out place everyone else in the house has to remain in.

      I don't oftenly talk about it but one of my hobbies is radio communications so hints I can't go out places I just sit and talk on the radio, I don't really have any friends I can video call but yeah that's how it's been here.

      Hopefully all is good in your town and home ๐Ÿ™‚.

  24. In case anyone is wondering where I am im somewhere amungst all of these books.ย  ย ย ย ๐Ÿ“—ย ๐Ÿ““ย ย ๐Ÿ“šย ย ๐Ÿ“–ย ๐Ÿ“‘ย ๐Ÿ“˜ย ๐Ÿ“šย ๐Ÿ“–ย ย ย ย ๐Ÿ“šย ๐Ÿ“•๐Ÿ“—ย ๐Ÿ““ย ย ๐Ÿ“šย ย ๐Ÿ“–ย ๐Ÿ“‘ย ย ย ๐Ÿ“˜ย ๐Ÿ“šย ๐Ÿ“–ย ย ย :insane:ย ย ๐Ÿ“šย ย ๐Ÿ“–ย ๐Ÿ“‘ย ย ย ๐Ÿ“˜ย ๐Ÿ“šย ๐Ÿ“–ย ย ย ๐Ÿ“•ย ๐Ÿ“šย ๐Ÿ“•

  25. โœ๏ธ๐ŸŽจย I drew this for all our members here, to remind you that we are always with you for supportย ๐ŸงกB20200911_134652-1.jpg

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