Still_confused

@samantha2009thanks. I have a lot of supportive people in my life, too. And then some people who are... not that supportive

From my mother: ”Did you lead him on?” ”Sometimes no means yes.” ”Don’t be so sensitive, try to understand I mean well, I can’t think about EVERY word I say around you.” From a policewoman when I tried reporting: ”You just feel bad about sleeping with a [racist slur], and you will probably feel dirty for a long time.” I was speechless. That was based on... nothing, except her being a racist. I felt bad about having been raped, it had nothing to do with his ethnicity. From a friend when I told her how the police had reacted. ”some girls just ruin it for