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WannaMoveOn

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  1. Wrapping, packing, boxing... wrapping, packing boxing! I am only cleaning out my room, what will it be that day I get my own apartment, with own furniture? Guess what I'll do at work tomorrow? Wrapping, packing, boxing... I work in the the storage section, taking donated items in and sorting them. Boyee, I could qualify for Santa's Little Helper soon! 

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Wanna, official Santa's Little Helper! How cute! You're a hard worker! Good luck with all of that!

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch Thank Thee! It's scary how my belongings, fitting in one room, requires nearly 10 boxes, and then none of the furniture is mine. 

  2. I volunteer worked for about 4 hours today, and had an interesting conversation with my boss. He is so nice and sympathetic, working everyday with employees who have their own struggle of trauma and rehabilitation. Also, a woman asked me if I'm pregnant since she found my extra belly layer being so firm.... hehe, what does one say to that? 

    Now I am home, waiting for my dinner roasting in the oven. There's vegan nuggets, beets, onion and potatoes. We have this holiday called "Valborgsmässafton" in Sweden today, where we are supposed to celebrate spring with a huge fire. This year though, people are adviced to celebrate from home and only with family.  

    Happy Friday, guys! 

    1. Anonymous4

      Anonymous4

      Happy Friday! @WannaMoveOn Trevlig Valborg too! ☺

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Anonymous4 Trevlig Valborg! Hoppas du får en bra kväll 😉 

    3. Anonymous4

      Anonymous4

      Tack! Ha en bra kväll du med! 😊 @WannaMoveOn

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  3. I helped with online children's church this morning, went away with the waste sorting and then back home for a shower. I made rice and chicken for dinner. Tomorrow, I'll start to rehears some chemistry for uni in the fall. Hope everyone's okay. 

    1. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @jazz101 yes, it's a nice way to apply yourself and get aware about the needs in society. 

    2. Anonymous4
    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Well hello there @Anonymous4 How are you today?

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  4. @Hiddenstars Hello and welcome back to After Silence! I am Wanna I assume we haven't met. Nice to meet you! Since this community tends to shift a bit regarding active members, you'll probably make many new acquaintances. We have some "veterans" left as well. I do hope you'll be able to continue your journey here. I am sorry you lost your community, building that kind of relationship to a group takes time. You don't have to own up for the support your receive here, just leave some kind words and advice whenever you feel like it. After Silence is in first hand here for you Fe
  5. @satinmoth Hello Satin and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna I am sincerely and deeply sorry about your trauma. The pain and struggle takes a toll, but you are certainly not alone. After Silence carries kind members who form a warm support system. I understand that it's hard to keep it all for yourself, but you are not supposed to either. Finding your voice patterns a way towards healing, i the pace that suits you the best. Please know that you carry no guilt in this, and that we believe you 110%. We have survivors with DID here as well, and we generally talk a lot about mental
  6. So yesterday, me and my bf were hitting it off with movie night.  We had crisps, candy, soda and pizza. As I am into the spicy area, I had chili crisps and onion crisps with a side of pepsi max. My pizza had lots of meat and garlic sauce. This morning, I decided it was work out time. You can guess what my poor tummy thought of that.  I have rewarded it with a hot shower and tea now... just learn from the expert, do not declare war against your own stomach like this 😄 

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Sounds like a great night! Lots of yummy food! 😄 I'm not good with spicy food, but everything still sounds yummy. ❤️ Sorry though about your tummy rebelling with the exercise! Take it easy!

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch I do this every weekend, even if this one was a bit extra. I wouldn't be motivated to stick with my food plan if I didn't get to eat my dear junk food at Fridays and Saturdays :) 

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @jazz101 Swedish specialty. We love throwing junk food on junk food :) 

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  7. @jazz101 Any time. I was about 18 when I started out my own healing journey, so I believe that helps me to relate in some ways. I hope you'll find what you need here
  8. Hey there! I'll go with Jazz, it's a cool nickname, even if Jazmine is really pretty. I am Wanna! Don't worry, I'm 21 and look like 16 at times. I like animals too, but I prefer those you can cuddle and take for walkies. This is a safe spot for you to hang out and connect with fellow survivors. We talk about anything here, from coping and trauma to plain everyday stuff. Our members are kind and understanding, forming a warm support system. I personally believe every survivor should have a community to count on. I am sincerely sorry for what you've been through. You own your s
  9. Hello there @SparklingJedi and welcome to After Silence, I am Wanna. I also choose to not give away my name here, not just for safety reasons. This is my safe spot to share whatever is on my mind without having to mind mean gossip, and I hope you'll find the same comfort here too. You don't have to share anything to feel uncomfortable with, just take things your pace. As @8888 said, only certain posts are available for non-members. This platform is a great way to connect with fellow survivors, to always sense support and no judgement. Please know, that we believe you. I am sincerel
  10. Hello and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna I am sincerely sorry for your pain and struggle to cope. I assure you, you're not alone with that. Trauma hits us in many ways and we cannot always know how to deal with it. Luckily, this community carries kind members with great advice. We support each other here, and this is a place for you to heal at your own pace. We tend to relate to each other here Your hobbies sounds lovely. I understand if you struggle feeling joy to them right now, I sure have been there too. Don't put pressure on yourself to do anything, just take good care o
  11. @Noell2288 Hello and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna Good thing you found us! I personally believe that a community and professional help complete each other in a support system. This is a safe place to start sharing, just in the pace and amount you feel comfortable with. Every survivor's story is unique, but we tend to relate to another in a remarkable way. By connecting with fellow survivors, you'll learn that you're not alone and about new ways to cope. This platform is great to exchange advice and support. Please know that we fully believe you, and that you carry no g
  12. @LuluKlu Hello and welcome to After Silence, I am Wanna I am also glad you decided to join us, as it is important you get heard. I am sincerely sorry for your trauma and pain. Please know that you carry no guilt in this, and we fully believe you! As I am a bit late on this one, I'm guessing you've already browsed this website a bit. If so, you've probably recognized that we chat about anything here. From trauma and healing to just plain, everyday life. You can reach out any time to us staff if you would have any questions. Wishing you the very best upon your healing!
  13. I sent a  DM to a woman I follow on Instagram. She often issues topics like sexism and misunderstandings regarding sexual consent. She posted a story with some common excuses P use to R, such as "it's hard when she gives mixed signals". I replied, that if the signals are shifting, maybe they can ask if she still wants to go all the way or just take it easy. The creator answered "Exaaactly!" to me in a DM. I am so happy right now, she has like 50 k followers and gets DM:s all the time, and she replied to me :dance:

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Lol well you never know :)

    2. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Woah! That is awesome! It's so exciting when a popular account/person replies to you! I've had that happen once, and it was like "ahhh!" ❤️ Congrats!

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch I had it happening to me once before, and yet I got just as happy this time as the one before. 

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  14. I get you. Even if you've been out of denial for some time, putting yourself out there for help can be a lot. You might re-experiencing certain memories or emotions. You'll maybe realize even more about your past. The more we talk about it, the more it takes off the edge. It takes effort, but if you're patient with yourself and take things your pace, it will get easier with time. Here for you. Deep breaths! - W ☀️
  15. Hi @Rachal1 and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna I am deeply and sincerely sorry for your trauma and pain, please know we believe you. Your story matters, and you carry no guilt in this. You are being incredible strong for taking that first step towards healing. In order to process, we need to be vulnerable at times and accept help from others. That is not always easy, but we support each other here. This platform is a great way to connect with other survivors, exchange advice and finding thus who can relate. Survivors actually tend to go through similar phases when healing, wh
  16. Hello @galaxxxy and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna I am sincerely sorry for your trauma and its affects on your mental health. You deserve help, please don't doubt it. Your struggle is real and depression is a serious condition, coming in different forms. Whatever happened to you, we believe you. A community cannot substitute professional help, you're right there (unless its supervised by professionals but this is not the case). We are all survivors or secondary survivors, with our own battles and struggles, but stronger together. Being in a community is a great way to find he
  17. Hello @doibelonghere and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna As I read your post, I understand you're upset and trust me, I am too. I am sincerely sorry for your trauma and pain. You do belong here, and your story matters to us. It takes great courage to bring this to court, and also to reach out. You can talk about pretty much anything here, from trauma and coping to just plain, everyday stuff. Please know you carry no guilt in this, and that we fully believe you. After Silence carries a platform with kind members who form a warm support system. We tend to relate to each other he
  18. Hello Uhane2 Things will get better, just don't be afraid if they will feel heavy at times. Healing tends to be a bumpy road, but you're not doing this alone. You have a whole community here, wanting what's best for you. Yes, the love and care here is genuine, so nice that you would sense it so soon. Reach out whenever you'd like to, you can DM me any time! - Wanna ☀️
  19. Hello @Nc0430 and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna First off, I am sincerely sorry for your trauma and pain. Please know that none of it was your fault and that we fully believe you. This is a safe place to connect with fellow survivors and find a way to share (what you would like to), relate and exchange advice. We talk about pretty much anything here, from trauma and coping to plain everyday life. Wherever you're at in your healing journey, we are happy to have you! If this person is trying to contact you, make sure to stay safe. Remember that health goes first, that's m
  20. I am lying awake at 4 am partly because of the heath (our heating system always gets a bit messed up when out doors temperatures change rapidly), and because of PMS. I usually don't struggle that much, but I've hardly had any in almost 5 months. My hormonal balance gets affected by life changes and stress, so this is a good sign but leaving me with quite a struggle. You forget how to handle it, you know. Anyhow, the medication I've taken is kicking in now so I'll just watch a show and then try to sleep again. 💪

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Aww, I hope that you can get some sleep! That's good the medication is working. :) PMS sucks terribly, and it's also really annoying when the heat doesn't work right! So I can see why you wouldn't be able to sleep. Sending you relaxing, well wishes. Hope you can sleep. ❤️ 

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch You're so kind ❤️ Luckily I can sleep in. 

  21. @Uhane2 Welcome to After Silence, I am Wanna You've come to the right place, we'll have you at any point of your healing journey. I am sincerely sorry for your trauma and struggle. Please know that it was not your fault, and that we believe you. Trauma can sadly hit us at any time, and our brain chooses when it wants to start processing. It can come very fast forward and turn our lives around, but we can get through it with the right support and guidance. You are being very brave for reaching out. Our community carries kind members who form a warm support system. We tend to relate
  22. So today I mixed my cabbage-carrot-meatloaf soup with ruccolasalad for dinner, and soaked a slice of bread in it. Instead of choosing between comfort food and healthy food, I try to make every meal healthy comforting food. :) Started to play the guitar last week and since my bf is my tutor, my training is very effective, customized and free. 

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Ooh yum! That definitely sounds comforting, delicious, and healthy! :) Have fun learning the guitar! That's really cool your bf is your tutor. Makes the learning process more enjoyable, for sure!

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch Yes, I believe it's a fun way to spend quality time. During covid, we don't get to see each other as often as we'd like to, so guitar lessons definitely mixes up our video chats a bit. 

  23. @Saphira Hello and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna Good thing, you decided to give this platform a try. This is a safe place, and our members form a warm support system. First off, I am sincerely sorry for your trauma and pain. Please know, that none of it was your fault. You have nothing to be ashamed about. We believe you! When stepping out of fear and denial, it is important to find support and encouragement so you don't fall back. Getting to the point of admitting our pasts takes a lot of effort and courage, and once doing that we need somebody to catch us. Using your word
  24. @Sam3456 Welcome to After Silence, I am Wanna I am so happy you decided to give this community a try! We carry a wide network of survivors, forming a warm support system. This is a safe place to share, relate and exchange advice. You can talk about anything here, everything from trauma and healing to plain daily life. Please know, that I am sincerely sorry for your trauma and pain. This is not on you, and you have nothing to be ashamed about. Connecting with fellow survivors takes off the edge, and it gets easier to talk about with time. Good thing, you got a therapist. I personall
  25. @LillieBelle Yes, it's sad, that so many have been affected. Happy news is, we can be a community. We do not carry shame, and we have the right to our own stories. I understand that you've been through a lot, but you seem to have set your goal. You deserve to have a life free from darkness influencing you. It's also wise to take time. It's hard to always follow own advice, but supporting others reminds you of them
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