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Hello Rose-T and welcome on board! I am Wanna by the way, nice to meet you Don´t worry, being nervous is normal, you are after all making a big decision for yourself. After Silence is a warm community with kind members, and we look out for each other here. You can talk about past, present and the future. About the good and bad, and anything inbetween. This platform provides a safe place to have a sense of extra support, whenever it suits you. No pressure on answering fast, or signing in frequently. You pick your own pace. I am sincerely sorry for what you´ve experienced and w
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Went blueberry picking with my friend and her furbaby today. Furbaby decided blueberries are nice and helped herself. I remembered today that me and this friend were supposed to go mini-golfing yesterday. We´re going tomorrow instead, my treat. She said she´ll be using the fact that I ditched her for a guy against me. I told her I will use her teasing me in the sixth grade against her. She let me off the hook. 😄
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Oboy oboy. I was adulting so much today! Pay day, so I transferred money into my savings account and payed my bills. I wrote my insurance company, did my work out, organized my clean laundry, showered... And I also went to see my friend after work before all of this. Busy day.
And tomorrow, I will get up at 4.45 am again... Vacation could note come sooner.
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Having a day off. I deep cleaned my room, the bath, am doing some laundry and have cancelled a subscription. I will have lunch soon and then do a gentle work out. Then I did what I had on today´s to do list. Really nice when life is just that simple.
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@sk8er yup, it´s the circle of life. Organize so you can have your chaos.
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I watched a reel today with a quote going something like "Healing is not about becoming the best version of yourself, but letting the worst version of yourself be loved". That really stuck with me.
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Just a heads up, if my spelling seems off. I use a new browser, the Brave browser, which is great for privacy. However, it was created merely one year ago and I had to install an English spelling correction seperatly. For some reason, it works on every site but AS. When I do welcomings, I run my writing through another site and then copy paste it here. Just so you guys know ^^
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Hello and welcome here, I am Wanna Getting memories back later on, may it be weeks, months, or years, is very common. Our brain has a way to suppress specific memories, only to unleash them when we might not expect it. I am deeply and sincerely sorry for your pain and trauma. These were sick people, and none of it was your fault. We believe you, and you have nothing to be ashamed about. I am happy you´re already feeling the sense of a community here. Reaching out is a coragious thing to do. It is so important for our healing, to feel heard and understood. Feel free to PM me w
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Got accepted into my first choices.
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I am sorry you are in a bad place. Stay safe, ok?
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Just booked myself a short vacation on the other end of the country! I have never given myself this, I am excited.
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Life lesson: Do that small extra thing for yourself. Get a pillow when you sit in the couch, chew some nice gum, buy that soda you´ve been craving or listen to that song that boosts you. I have been paying attention to those small things a lot lately and it has helped me. You know, those small details that makes your day more fun.
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My legs are rubber. Rough day at work. I just payed my last outstanding bill from last month and shall now cool down, with a raspberry ice pop. It´s so hot and humid right now.
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@mini.finchI had two ice pops! One raspberry, one lemon. Huggles!
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Hello and welcome! I am Wanna, nice to meet you This is a great place for what you are aspiring for. After Silence carries a wide diversity of survivors, and our members are very kind. We tend to relate to each other here, and you get the chance to feel less alone. You seem to be taking your healing as high priority, which I second. I have done some therapy myself. The combination of professional help and a community is a good composition in a support system. We meet you wherever you might be at on your journey. You can throw me a PM any time! All best, W ☀️
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Hello @anakim and welcome here! I am Wanna btw No worries, you decide how often you´d like to sign in. We are here for you any time, so you can feel the sense of a community unconditionally. This is a safe place where you can share experiences, thoughts and feelings. You can vent, discuss and connect with fellow survivors. I hope you are safe and well, and despite trauma processing get to enjoy the summer a bit. Yes, the reasons that brought us here are indeed unfortunate. But we are stronger together, and that is beautiful Wishing you the very best, W ☀️
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If I have been a little distant, it´s because I worked a lot lately. I even stayed at a friend´s last night because my shift ended at 9.30 pm and my next was 06.45 am. So I slept over since she lives close. I will have some more time off soon, but my plate´s full right now
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@mini.finch Yes, I nap a lot these days. Yesterday I napped so hard, as I woke up believing it was the next day.
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Aaaah! I have two days off in a row for the first time in a while. I had a Big Bang theory type of morning. I gently exercised, deep cleaned my room, did some laundry and organized my mail. Pay day tomorrow (since Friday is a national holiday), so I went extra with my pizza ordering. I shall be elite lazy for the rest of the day! I even forced myself not to do all my chores in a row, but to watch one episode of something inbetween.
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Hello there, wishing you welcome as well! I am Wanna I myself have found great comfort in this forum. You can talk about pretty much anything and share in the amount you feel comfortable with. Everyone here has a different story, but we tend to relate to another here. We are here for you, wherever you are at healing right now and will be for ups and downs. All best, W
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Boy, got up at 5 so I could be at work by 7. Worked 7-4 with only a 30 minute break. It's a messy bun, scented candle and blanket kind of night. Will work again tomorrow, so recharging all night now!
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Oh, no problems at all! Always happy to help a newbie out
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Having today off, but working this weekend.
I had a shower, a walk, and now some caramel popcorn and ice tea.
My doctor will call in an hour, I have check up today on quitting Flouxetine. I have been experiencing some mood swings, but nothing I cannot tackle with the techniques I learned in therapy.
Hope everyone is well, and will have something fun to look forward this weekend.
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Hello and welcome here! I am Wanna by the way I am glad you decided to join here, so you hopefully can feel less alone and more supported. After Silence has really helped me out, having an anonymous place to unload and recharge. Our members are kind and with our many forums, you can discuss a wide range of topics. Take your time to settle in! All best, W
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Hello and welcome here! I am Wanna btw I am sincerely sorry for your trauma and the pain that comes with. This is a good place to explore different coping strategies, we discuss many different techniques. We also talk a lot about therapy and creating a support system. You choose how much you' like to share, we are here for you! Of course you'll be supported, that is what we are here for. You can throw me a PM at any time, for questions, thoughts or just some chat/venting. Hope you're having a lovely day/night - W ☀️
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Hello and welcome here! I am Wanna Our trauma start coming back at the least expected of times. It is important that you take good care of yourself and find a support system. I am proud of you for reaching out to get help, that can be scary but you'll thank yourself down the road. Being wait listed can sure be frustrating, been there myself. I hope this community will ease that waiting a bit. This is a safe place for all types of survivors, where you can share in the amount you feel comfortable with. We tend to relate to each other here. Please know, we believe you. Let me kn
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Hello! Popping in and wishing you welcome! I am Wanna by the way I am deeply and sincerely sorry for your trauma and that comes with. Please know, we believe you, and you are not alone. Yes, I think we somehow feel validation once we understand that our struggle is real. I suffer memory loss after my trauma, and have been afraid I suppressed giving consent. However, one doesn´t feel this way without reason. I personally think a person affected by substance cannot give consent. I am glad you came here, I think you could use a place like this. After Silence is a safe community where
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Boy what a day! I set the alarm at 5 am, so I could be at work by 7 am. As I got off my 7 hour shift, I went to the store to buy some buns and pepsi, and went to my friend's. She had two fur babies that day, her own and one she was watching. We sat outside, and a couple of neighbors joined us. One of them brought a fur baby as well. So we ended up being 3 girls and 3 doggos. I had brilliant sushi.
Am home now, 16 hours after that I left.
And your friend has a cute furbaby, eating blueberries! 
