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WannaMoveOn

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  1. Any time, we are happy to have you!
  2. Hello Celia. I am Wanna ☀️ Welcome to After Silence! This is a safe place to exchange support and share within the amount you feel comfortable with. This platform carries a wide diversity of survivors, where our members have each other's back. I am very sorry for the reasons that brought you here, I wish the best upon your healing and processing. If you would need anything at all, please know that us staff always has doors open. Feel free to browse this web and do not hesitate to ask questions. All best and take care - Wanna
  3. Hello Émilia. I am Wanna ☀️ I am sorry for your trauma and the reasons for you being here. I hope you know that whatever happened to you, it is not your fault. This platform is a safe place to share and exchange support. After Silence carries a wide diversity of survivors, and our members form a wonderful support system. I wish you welcome. Feel free to browse the site and do not hesitate to ask questions. Us staff always has doors open for you! All best and take care - Wanna
  4. Hello Charlie.1 and welcome to After Silence! You have come to the right place. This is a safe platform carrying a wide diversity of survivors. Our members relate to and support another. You are welcomed to share in the amount you feel comfortable with. I am sorry for the reasons that brought you here. I wish the very best upon your healing. We are happy to have you. Take care and all best - Wanna ☀️
  5. Hello @Lucy1603 I am Wanna ☀️ I am sorry for what happened to you, your trauma and all that comes with it. I hope you will find the support you need on this site, and please know I have doors open if you would have any questions or need to chat/vent. Take care - Wanna
  6. Hello @Cristina R and welcome to After Silence. I am Wanna ☀️ I am sorry about your trauma and that people you trusted would hurt you. Regaining the ability to trust can be challenging, but After Silence is here for you! Just know that none of this is your fault. Be patient with yourself. I hope you feel that you have the right help and are receiving the support that you need. This community carries a wide diversity of survivors, and our members form a wonderful community. Feel free to share in the amount you feel comfortable with, this is a safe place to vent. I have doors open in case you would have any questions or just want a chat. Stay safe - Wanna
  7. Hello @MyraG and welcome to After Silence. This is the first post I see including pictures of dogs, they look very nice. I am sorry for your trauma and all that comes with it. We discuss plenty of mental health on this platform, PTSD for example. Feel free to be open about that and anything you like, in the amount you feel comfortable with. After Silence invites all kinds of survivors, carrying a wide diversity of them. Our members create a wonderful support system. I am happy you have a long term therapist to open up to. I hope this community will be a comforting addition to your support system. If you have any questions do not hesitate to reach out to me or any staff. Your hobbies sound like lovely crafting. I like to make jewelry myself. Happy you found us! - Wanna ☀️
  8. Hello Time, and welcome to After Silence. I first off want to share my sympathies and tell you I am sorry for the reasons that brought you here. We believe your story. The feelings you describe, wishing to have made it up, feeling odd, alone, like the trauma is lurking etc are indeed common among survivors. That does not make it any less serious or traumatic though, so please do not think that your introduction would be too sad or bothering in any way. This is after all a place to vent and share in the amount you feel comfortable with. I hope you will find yourself a comforting support system here. Our platform carries a wide diversity of survivors, and our members form a wonderful community. You are right, we deserve better, you deserve better. After Silence is here for you 🌻 Feel free to browse the site, and know that the staff, including me, always has doors open if you would have any questions. Take care - Wanna ☀️
  9. Hello, I am Wanna. None of what happened is your fault. I second @8888, stay safe and prioritize finding support. Take care and know this community is here for you. - Wanna ☀️
  10. Hello EvilRegal, and welcome to After Silence! I am sorry for the reasons that brought you here. This is a safe place and with understanding and kind members, forming a wonderful community. Our platform carries a wide diversity of survivors, who share, relate and exchange support. Feel free to browse this site. After Silence is here for you. Hope see you around! Take care - Wanna ☀️
  11. Hello, I am Wanna. Your story is your story, you own it. This community is an understanding and safe place. Our platform carries a wide diversity of survivors, and our members form a wonderful support system. There are several ways to process trauma, so I encourage you to research and inform yourself about different types of techniques. It is of importance that you feel safe and comfortable as you open up. I sympathize with you and want to welcome you to After Silence. This platform is here for you, and know we are happy to have you. Feel free to reach out to me. 🌻 Stay safe and all best - Wanna ☀️
  12. Welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna I hope you will find the comfort and support you are looking for here. I am sorry for your trauma and what comes with it. This platform is here for you - Wanna ☀️
  13. Hello Unsurewhat2do and welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna This is a safe place to exchange experiences, cope and create a support system. I am sorry for what brought you here, please know that none of it is your fault. You are doing the right thing by speaking up and seeking for support. Confronting this person should only be your choice, but please know that he is the one to take the consequences of his actions, not you. Whatever happens next, After Silence is here for you. This platform invites you to post whatever you would like about your experiences and healing journey. Feel free to browse the site and do not hesitate to ask me or other site mods questions. Take care and once again, welcome! ☀️
  14. Hello sunflowersforme 🌻 and welcome to After Silence! First off, I want to say that I believe your story, sympathize with you and am deeply sorry about your trauma. Having a functional professional help is important, so I am happy you have positive experiences about it. I am also happy to hear that you have decided to share your story and want to take part of others. You are right, our brain often decides to reveal suppressed memories when we actually are ready, even if we might not always feel that way. This is a safe place to exchange support and experiences, with very kind and understanding members. After Silence is here for you both for the processing of your past and when facing your upcoming changes. Take care! - Wanna ☀️
  15. Hello CAB1997 and welcome to After Silence! After realizing what happened to you, which is a big step itself, it is normal to have questions about the trauma, why we react the why we do etc. This forum is a safe and anonymous place to exchange experiences, relate and receive support. I hope you will make yourself at home here. This platform carries a wide diversity of survivors, and our members make a wonderful support system. Take care, I am happy you have found us! 🌻 - Wanna ☀️
  16. Hello LakeSunset and welcome to After Silence! 🌻 I am sorry you went on years without realizing your trauma. Your healing is still relevant, no matter the timeline. I agree on society taking on a new perspective towards the meaning of consent. We should be able to talk about it more, but it can be difficult to do with anyone. This platform is however an anonymous, safe and, from my experience, very understanding place. We have a wide diversity of survivors on this platform, creating a wonderful support system. You are strong for opening up. We believe you. - Wanna ☀️
  17. Not silly at all, I am glad you feel compassion and kindness, and do hope you will continue to do so. Please feel free to explore our platform and it's other forums. Do not hesitate to reach out to the staff if you need anything at all or just want a chat. Have a nice day ☀️
  18. Hello @Calliope Let me second Livejournal. I believe in you, it was not your fault, because every bit is true. I am sorry for what happened to you, and sorry you went on for so long without a steady community. You have a kind, understanding and wide one right here. Your participation is highly welcomed. On this community, members have another's back, so you've come to the right place for mutual support. ☀️ I hope you will create a safe place here, please know the staff is available for any questions.
  19. Hello Sunflower198 and welcome to After Silence 🌻 For starters, you are not stupid, you are not an idiot. You are brave for posting about this. SA and r*pe seldom happens like the stereotypes tell us, and the scenarios are often complex and involving someone you know previously, which can make the situation difficult to understand. Also, it is a coping mechanism to suppress memories. You figuring it out years after is not abnormal, everyone has their own timeline. He had no right to claim your body. I am so sorry for him doing you so wrong. I hope you know that none of this was your fault. Please feel free to reach out to me or any staff you'd feel comfortable with, feel free to check our forums and chat rooms out, and do not hesitate to ask questions. After Silence is here for you! Take care and happy to have you! - Wanna
  20. WannaMoveOn

    still mad

    @mango_star1 Yes you can get through this. Personality change during the phases of processing is normal and you can find back to yourself. You stepping out of character is explainable, but stay safe and keep your doctors informed about your mental statement. Just to understand you right, do you receive any counseling from this doctor you've mentioned? Sitting with you if ok?
  21. Hello @mango_star1 and welcome to After Silence! I am sorry for what you have been through. I am happy we are having you here though, and that you feel comfortable enough to open up here. You have nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of, and I do hope you know that nothing in this is your fault. Whatever happens next with your re-description and healing, know that this forum can provide you with a wide support system of kind members. Hope to keep seeing you coming here. ☀️ - Wanna
  22. Hello @Sj85 and welcome to After Silence! Good thing you've already recognized the members as a "nice bunch", I can assure you this platform makes a wonderful support system. Please join in on the this bunch, and know that After Silence is a safe place to vent, share your story, receive support and exchange experiences. I am sorry for what you've been through. I hope you can find After Silence as a comfort while processing. Welcome and I love cats too 🐈
  23. Hello @tiffanylynn55 I really admire you helping this woman, being prepared to put up with the triggers and suppressed memories. I completely understand that you don't feel like yourself, and that the future might seem uncertain right now. Just know that whatever happens next, both regarding the investigation and your own coping, you can come and find support here. Our community has a great diversity of survivors, and you can post whatever you'd like to get off your chest. I am sorry for what happened to you when you were 19, and that you went 10 years with suppressing. I am happy though, that we are having you. Welcome to After Silence! ☀️ - Wanna
  24. Hello @iluvac Welcome to After Silence! I am sorry for what brought you here, but happy you've found us. I'd second @MeBeMary, our members form a wonderful support system. I want to congratulate you on opening up to your family. Even if you are close, opening up might not always be that easy. Good thing you feel support though. Feeling numb is a normal reaction when you are overwhelmed, going through a lot etc. Give yourself time, and keep using your words when you feel comfortable to do so. I hope you will come to recognize this platform as a safe place. ☀️ - Wanna
  25. Hello Mitchi. I totally understand your feelings about opening up. It is a huge step, but this is a safe place. I am sorry for the reasons that brought you here, but happy we are having you. During my 1.5 years on After Silence, I have neither felt judged, confronted or not believed. This platform has a diversity of survivors, and you can post whatever you like about your healing and struggle. About wondering if not looking at the person you are opening up to... everyone copes in their own way, just give yourself time Welcome to After Silence! 🌻 - Wanna
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