I am a 26, mom of 2, and married. I was raped by one of my best firends 9 years ago on June 21st. I am finally ready to work on putting it all in a place where I can cope with it and move on in my life. I just started to go to counseling for the rape even though I have been in therapy for 3 years now. My problem is opening up. I have lost all my friends from 9 years ago because of the rape. I want to get my life back in order.