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Capulet

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  1. **PSA**

    After Silence will be undergoing some much-needed maintenance at some point tonight, March 1, 2024.  We will be working on things throughout the weekend.  Please be advised that there will likely be some periods of downtime and access/connectivity will be limited when we are down.  

    Thank you all for your patience and please take gentle care of yourselves. :) 

    I'll see you all when we're back!❤️  

  2. To all of my AS Friends and Family:

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    Happy New Year!  May 2024 be a year filled with happiness, health and healing.  Love and safe hugs to all of those who would like them. ❤️ 

     

    1. MeBeMary
    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      Happy new year Cap. I hope this year is a great one for you 

    3. ActivistAlly

      ActivistAlly

      Happy 2024!!!

  3. Everyone, please take care of yourselves today!  If Halloween is something you enjoy, please ensure that you stay safe while participating in any activities today/tonight!!

    If you do not particularly enjoy Halloween, then please take care of yourselves and treat yourselves to some self-care and know that November is right around the corner!!!  

    Sending everyone love. ❤️

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you, Cap. ❤️ :) 

    3. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Thanks, Cap! I have (general) doctor's appointment in a little while, that is as scary as I will get. 👻

      No trick-or-treaters in my complex to give out to, so my plans will be snuggling up under a warm blanket and watching the World Series. :popcorn:

    4. awi

      awi

      thank you cap 

  4. Ughhhh.  I have a terrible cold.

    (Also what I said to get out of going to a therapy appointment a few years ago.)

    This time, it’s true!

    Hoping you all are having a good day. ❤️

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    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      Hope you feel better soon cap 

    3. Capulet

      Capulet

      Thank you, all.  I am hanging in there.  I am glad my weekend starts now - and will last four days!  I plan to rest as much as possible and be the best couch potato I can possibly be.  

    4. Doll6

      Doll6

      Sounds like the perfect plan @Capulet

  5. Couldn't pass up the opportunity to share this little (big) guy's smile and wave 'hello.'  Hoping it puts a grin onto your faces, too!

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  6. I know my posting and involvement has been less and less lately.  I’ve been in a bit of a funk, trying to acclimate to job and family (and pet) demands, new sleep schedules, and to top it off, am getting over being sick last week…getting back to 100% IS a thing!!  It all adds up!  I want you all to know though, that I DO still come here daily and think of all of my friends every day.  There is something comforting about being here, even if not much is said.  It is still comforting to see all of you, even if just in name.  Sending you all hugs!!  ❤️

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    1. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      No worries Cappy, please just take care of yourself. I know you have a lot going on, and I also know you're working a lot with the site "behind the scenes". 

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Take care of yourself, Cap! ❤️ I've been sick for the past month...so I understand being sick and wanting to get back to 100%! Plus you're working and dealing with family etc. It's totally ok! It's just nice hearing from you when we do. :) 

    3. ActivistAlly
  7. I know some of us are still working on self-confidence!! ❤️  

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  8. Sending everyone strength, love, peace, comfort, healing and lots of cookies and coffee.  Hoping you are all hanging in there and being kind to yourselves today.

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 

    - Cappy

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    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Swap out coffee for cocoa, then I'll have a mug. Also sending back all that good stuff to you, @Capulet. Hoping you, your new wifey, your kids all enjoy the holidays. :throb:  

    2. Finchy
  9. Tomorrow, November 17th is World Pancreatic Cancer Day.  

    I invite you all to leave a 💗 in support of those who are directly and/or indirectly struggling with cancer.  Know you are loved, supported and thought of, EVERY day.  

    I'm wearing my pink a day early.

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    2. ActivistAlly
    3. Field8

      Field8

      Fighting this disease everyday. Love you Cap and everyone. 💜 We are purple fighting!!!

    4. orangegiraffe
  10. For some, Mother’s Day is complicated.

    For those who have dreamed of motherhood and are still waiting for that dream to come true.

    For those whose children have died.

    For those who have experienced miscarriage or stillbirth.

    For those who have made difficult decisions regarding their motherhood.

    For those who made the painful choice to say goodbye.

    For those who will only be celebrated for the children in their arms while also mothering the ones in their hearts.

    For those who are dealing with infertility.

    For those whose motherhood is challenged by society.

    For those who aren’t sure where they fit on Mother’s Day.

    For those who have complicated relationships with their children.

    For those who are experiencing motherhood without support.

    For those who are missing their mothers.

    For those who have complicated relationships with their mothers.

    For those who never knew their mothers.

    For those who have reasons beyond this list.

    Please know that you have my support. ❤️ 

  11. A very, very Happy Birthday to a dear friend of mine - @Iheartcupcakes - so much is happening in your life right now!  You are a warrior who plows through whatever is thrown at you and you tirelessly inspire us all every single day to do the same.  

    Have the best, brightest day, Amy!  You deserve it.  We love you!!!! ❤️   

  12. It doesn't have to be Thanksgiving for me to be thankful every day to be a part of this community.  As I know today is a difficult day for many, I will just leave this here and send positivity, strength and safe hugs to you all.   ❤️ 

    1. MeBeMary
    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      I am very thankful for this community, too. ❤️ 

    3. Doll6
  13. Fill in the blanks... 😉

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    Happy Saturday!  Remember, we have an extra hour tonight to practice self-care. ❤️ 

    1. Hope321

      Hope321

      I really like this reframe. Although I am now on Sunday, I am going to think how I can do that today. I think I will go for a walk with the lovely weather. Thanks for sharing!

    2. Capulet

      Capulet

      @Hope321 - that sounds amazing!!!  Enjoy your walk! ❤️ 

  14. Okay, many of you know already that I don't like the Fall - it's traumaversary season for me.   But this little critter is super adorable and the words are something we should all take to heart - and not just today...every day. :)  So - here ya go - some random midweek wisdom! ❤️ Sending you all strength and positivity along with the cuteness!

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      I see another Latest Kate piece! All her work is so adorable. And so positive. ❤️ I love this one. Thank you for sharing. Sending you lots of support during this time!

    3. Field8

      Field8

      Standing with ya friend 💜

    4. Iheartcupcakes

      Iheartcupcakes

      Me, too, friend. Going through this together :throb:

  15. This face always, ALWAYS helps my mood.  Sharing the cuteness - here’s my fur-buddy trying to convince me not to go to work.  He did lose that battle, but he wins his fair share. 😉

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    2. waterlily13

      waterlily13

      SO cute!! ❤️

    3. Hawkgirl

      Hawkgirl

      Oh my goodness, he is so cute!!!  :lindybear:

    4. Capulet

      Capulet

      Thanks, all!  He is such a good boy.  VERY hyper and needs to calm down a little, but wouldn't change him for a thing!

  16. Friday Wisdom! ❤️ 

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    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Indeed! ❤️ 

    2. Hope321

      Hope321

      Lovely Friday post, Cap. 💕 

  17. ❤️ Time for a shout-out!  To each and every one of you.

     

     

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    2. AKB

      AKB

      So very needed. Thanks @Capulet.

    3. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Very helpful, I mean I'm trying to let go so definitely in tune with this, thanks cap, hope all are okay?

    4. sweetfeather5

      sweetfeather5

      Thank you! I hope you are doing well yourself💛

  18. Yeahhhhh.  That kinda day...thought this would make y'all smile. ❤️ 

    The sun'll come out tomorrow, maybe? 

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    2. matts

      matts

      Oh so cute.

    3. Enigma87

      Enigma87

      Awww 🥰 

    4. Finchy

      Finchy

      So precious. ❤️ I want to boop his nose!! *boops* 

  19. ❤️ 

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    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Lol cap 🤣

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      I'm sorry about your battle with headaches, Cap! Ugh, don't I know that feeling! I hope that they ease up for you. *safe hugs* Good luck wrapping up your schoolwork! You can do it!!

    4. Capulet
  20. Happy Friday, everyone. ❤️ Just a friendly reminder to make time for yourselves.  Don't forget - you're important!

    What's one way you'll practice some self-care this weekend?   👇

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    2. Tapestry

      Tapestry

      ❤ Happy Friday, Cap! Tonight I am taking conscious time to myself. I am feeling a lot of "shoulds" about connecting with other people but it has Been. A. Week. and I need down time. 

      How about you?

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    3. Capulet

      Capulet

      @Hope321 - that sounds absolutely perfect!!!  I hope you enjoy your walk and your friend's company.  So glad you're going to have the quiet time to yourself to read and journal (one of my favorites), too! ❤️ 

      @Tapestry - hear ya loud and clear on the long week.  Had one of those on this end, too!  

      I'm going to enjoy a little down time this weekend, too, even if it means staying in bed for an extra hour after waking up.  I've admittedly been overworking myself.  I'm also going to try to give myself an entire day (tomorrow) without opening a textbook or one of the several papers due at the end of this semester!!!

    4. Hope321

      Hope321

      I hope you had a lovely day today. I think that was an excellent idea to give yourself a break from school. It is a hard thing to do!

  21. How are my favorite people (yes, all of YOU!) doing today? ❤️ 

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    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hey hope everyone is doing okay?

      I've not been doing so great myself but that's a whole other story.

      Safe hugs :hug:If ok?

    3. Capulet

      Capulet

      It's nice to hear from you, @Free2Fly!!! ❤️ I'm sorry you're not doing so great these days.  I am always thinking of you and hoping you're healthy and safe.  Thank you for the hugs, sending some back your way, if you'll have 'em! :hug:

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Thank you @Capulet, I appreciate it friend recently health has been a issue it's been pretty all over the place most of my family have been vaccinated while 3 of us haven't cause of a government mess up.

      Over than that mentally I've been up and down too mostly down  apart from discovering potential other issues.

      But yeah I hope the weather hasn't effected your town like the rest, the Canadians could at least send you some maple syrup with the snow they give you guys in America .

      But yeah hope is well with everyone on here.

  22. Checking in with everyone.  How are y'all doing tonight? ❤️ 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Not the worst, not the best. Struggling with intrusive thoughts...but I'm about to head off to bed now and just hope I can sleep them away. Thank you for checking in with everyone. I hope you're doing well. ❤️ 

    2. Capulet

      Capulet

      ❤️ Can't complain, @mini.finch, thank you!  Hoping you were able to get some rest last night and that today is a little bit better. :hug:

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      That's great @Capulet! ❤️ Thank you. I got some rest, but I admit it wasn't the most restful with some unpleasant dreams. But I'm doing what I can. Thank you again. :hug:

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