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Capulet

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  1. Happy Friday, everyone. ❤️ Just a friendly reminder to make time for yourselves.  Don't forget - you're important!

    What's one way you'll practice some self-care this weekend?   👇

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    2. Tapestry

      Tapestry

      ❤ Happy Friday, Cap! Tonight I am taking conscious time to myself. I am feeling a lot of "shoulds" about connecting with other people but it has Been. A. Week. and I need down time. 

      How about you?

      T

    3. Capulet

      Capulet

      @Hope321 - that sounds absolutely perfect!!!  I hope you enjoy your walk and your friend's company.  So glad you're going to have the quiet time to yourself to read and journal (one of my favorites), too! ❤️ 

      @Tapestry - hear ya loud and clear on the long week.  Had one of those on this end, too!  

      I'm going to enjoy a little down time this weekend, too, even if it means staying in bed for an extra hour after waking up.  I've admittedly been overworking myself.  I'm also going to try to give myself an entire day (tomorrow) without opening a textbook or one of the several papers due at the end of this semester!!!

    4. Hope321

      Hope321

      I hope you had a lovely day today. I think that was an excellent idea to give yourself a break from school. It is a hard thing to do!

  2. How are my favorite people (yes, all of YOU!) doing today? ❤️ 

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    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hey hope everyone is doing okay?

      I've not been doing so great myself but that's a whole other story.

      Safe hugs :hug:If ok?

    3. Capulet

      Capulet

      It's nice to hear from you, @Free2Fly!!! ❤️ I'm sorry you're not doing so great these days.  I am always thinking of you and hoping you're healthy and safe.  Thank you for the hugs, sending some back your way, if you'll have 'em! :hug:

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Thank you @Capulet, I appreciate it friend recently health has been a issue it's been pretty all over the place most of my family have been vaccinated while 3 of us haven't cause of a government mess up.

      Over than that mentally I've been up and down too mostly down  apart from discovering potential other issues.

      But yeah I hope the weather hasn't effected your town like the rest, the Canadians could at least send you some maple syrup with the snow they give you guys in America .

      But yeah hope is well with everyone on here.

  3. Checking in with everyone.  How are y'all doing tonight? ❤️ 

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Not the worst, not the best. Struggling with intrusive thoughts...but I'm about to head off to bed now and just hope I can sleep them away. Thank you for checking in with everyone. I hope you're doing well. ❤️ 

    2. Capulet

      Capulet

      ❤️ Can't complain, @mini.finch, thank you!  Hoping you were able to get some rest last night and that today is a little bit better. :hug:

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      That's great @Capulet! ❤️ Thank you. I got some rest, but I admit it wasn't the most restful with some unpleasant dreams. But I'm doing what I can. Thank you again. :hug:

  4. My wish for you all: everything here, and more - especially peace, comfort and healing.  Happy New Year to my AS family!! ❤️ 

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    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Happy New Year, Cap! Here's to a wonderful new year for all! :throb:

    2. Hope321

      Hope321

      Happy New Year!

  5. I am truly thankful for this community and for all of those wonderful connections I have made here.  Though this year has been nothing short of chaotic, I am truly glad that AS has remained a safe place. I know that this year’s holiday season is going to be a bit bittersweet with the looming pandemic but my wish for all of you is that you will remember to take good care of yourselves amid the craziness.  You are worth it!!

    Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate.  If not, have a hug anyway, for I’m grateful for all of you.  🦃🤗

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Happy Thanksgiving, Cap. I am with you, so glad for AS. Such a safe retreat.

      Enjoy your day and stay safe and healthy. :hug: 

    2. redadmirals

      redadmirals

      Happy Thanksgiving to you Cap!! I am so grateful to have connected with you, truly wish you the best.

    3. BrightSide

      BrightSide

      Thank you, Safe hugs back if you would like Cap? :hug: 💛 B

  6. Dealing the random hugs, take as many as you want...my supply is unlimited. ❤️ 

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    3. copper_lips

      copper_lips

      Please and thank you!

    4. Capulet

      Capulet

      @matts, @ActivistAlly, and @copper_lips - giving each of you more of these squishy hugs. :)  Hoping all of you are having a good day. 

  7. Mid-night check-in.  How's everyone doing this evening?

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    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Thank you cap, I hope I do too, as far as everything else goes stuff has been down too :( but yeah it's as it goes.

      Hope all is good at your end?

      Hugs if ok? :hug: :bighug:

    3. Capulet

      Capulet

      Always! :hug: 

      All is well, hun.  Was sick last week but definitely on the mend, now.  

      Thinking the battle with my eyes is beginning to shift to the losing side.  2:15am and I'm ready to go to bed.

      I'll be back later this morning. ❤️  

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      :hug:

      Glad your on the mend lot of people getting sick these days especially with covid and the healthcare over here isn't doing a good job at all to be honest.

      No worries, have a nice sleep and will probably speak again soon.

      :) .

  8. All right.  I need a hug.  Or two.  Or two hundred...

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    2. Eph320NY

      Eph320NY

      Well, then. Here are the hugs!:hug::hug:

    3. Capulet

      Capulet

      :hug:

      Back atcha, all of you!  

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Thanks cap :) , kinda needed one I'm a bit under the weather today. Hope all is okay with you?

  9. Today's laughing moment....took doggy's bed and put it on top of the crate so that I could sweep his mess....I turn around and THIS is what I see....  🤦‍♀️

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    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Such a cutie! Love those ears! :throb:  

    3. LisaButterfly

      LisaButterfly

      Love this so much! What a sweet (and cheeky) dog. 😉

    4. Eph320NY

      Eph320NY

      So adorable!

  10. Leaving this here, because, really, who can't smile at this????

    Have a great weekend, everyone. ❤️ 

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    2. BrightSide

      BrightSide

      Hello Apollo 😃 Thank you Cap, I hope you have a lovely weekend too!

    3. 8888

      8888

      Adorable pup!

  11. So, this happened!

    Introducing the newest member of the Capulet family.  Say hello to Apollo!

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    He's such a good boy.  We're so in love.  😍

    He's making himself at home and keeping me covered in doggy kisses and lots of cuddles!  

    My heart is happy. ❤️ 

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    2. 8888

      8888

      Congrats, what a cutie!  

    3. BrightSide

      BrightSide

      ahh, he is so cute! Hello Apollo :wave:🐕

    4. orangegiraffe

      orangegiraffe

      So cute! Enjoy him!! 

  12. A friendly reminder to those who post status updates regularly:

    These are NOT private.  These are PUBLIC.  Unregistered visitors to After Silence can view recent status updates.  Therefore, there must not be any profanity, identifying or triggering materials included within status updates.

    Any status updates deemed inappropriate for the public eye are subject to deletion.

    Thank you.

    - Capulet

  13. To those of you having a rough time right now:

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    Know that you are not alone! ❤️ 

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    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Thanks cap :) , hope everyone is having a lovely evening Or afternoon wherever you maybe.

    3. waterlily13

      waterlily13

      I needed this friend, having a bad day :(

    4. Capulet

      Capulet

      @waterlily13 - so sorry, friend.  :(  Hope the day improves and some of that darkness lifts... ❤️ 

  14. General chat will be starting in 2 hours (1pm EST/6pm GMT)!! :)  Join me in the Let's Chat! channel. Hope to see you there! ❤️ 

  15. In just a little over an hour, I will be hosting an hour-long general chat in the Let's Chat! channel.  Hope to see you there! ❤️ 

  16. Happy April, everyone - although we remember this message every day, April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month - let us all remember to reach out for the (virtual) hand of other survivors, especially while we are all dealing with limited in-person interaction during the COVID crisis.  Please stay safe, everyone, and remember - we are always here!

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  17. Been a while since I did this...

    Have a nice weekend, all!

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    2. 8888

      8888

      Thank you and happy weekend!

    3. Mave

      Mave

      Thank you, Cap! You too!

    4. waterlily13

      waterlily13

      Thank you friend, you too! ❤️ 

  18. For when the going gets tough and the frustration begins to mount; for those times we wonder how continuing is possible....here's a random little message that is important for us all to remember, may these short, powerful words speak louder than the rest... ❤️  Have a great Sunday, everyone.

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    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      💕 Thanks. 

  19. Attention newbies!  Tonight, January 14th, we will be hosting a newbie chat at 11pm EST/10pm Central.  All are welcome!  Bring all of your questions and concerns and let's chat. ❤️ 

  20. A random Tuesday quote, something for us all to think about:

    "The only people who get upset over you setting boundaries are those who benefit from you having none."

    (Stolen from my local women's shelter page.)

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Yes! Good share, Capulet!

    2. Iheartcupcakes
  21. Haven't put one of these out in a while.... 😉

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    Keep shining, friends! ❤️ 

  22. 🚨 PSA: After Silence is running VERY slowly tonight.  It's not your computers, don't fret! :)  

    1. Mave

      Mave

      Thanks, Cap!

    2. 8888

      8888

      Good to know!

  23. Happy Thanksgiving, everyone. :)  So grateful for this community and all who consider themselves a part of it.  Each and every one of you is dear to my heart!

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    For those of you who struggle with finding things to be thankful for today - I wish you periodic moments of peace and joy - for those are what will carry you the rest of the way.  My love to you all. ❤️ 

  24. "A relationship full of control is really out of control."

    True story, friends.

    From social media this weekend:
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