Bluesclues

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About Bluesclues

  • Birthday July 11

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  1. So many safe hugs for you @Alimanu I'm short on words tonight but I'm sitting with you.
  2. I'm sorry for what you've been through. So many safe hugs if that's okay. Im glad you've found this site, it's very supportive and open. I hope you find some healing here.
  3. I really love this. So many safe hugs. @JubileePenguin
  4. Rainn is awesome. I want to do this too, especially middle/high schools. Stop it before they get the real freedom of college.
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    Good for you for speaking out and also trying to date again. I'm honestly exhausted so I'm not really sure how to articulate what's in my brain right now, but I'm sitting with you and I support you.
  6. 4

    I agree. People need to know the truth. I want to speak out and have talks. I feel like I couldn't live with myself if I didn't help other people going through this. It's too awful. Kids and teens, no one should go through this, but kids and teens need a voice or to be heard and believed.
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    I am so sorry. I truly am speechless. I'm am holding you so tight if that's okay. I am sorry.
  8. I'm so sorry for what's happened to you as a child and for the loss of your husband. I am sitting with you if that's okay. @pahatfi
  9. @powerlesstoy welcome to as. I'm sorry for what you've been through and haven't had a good experience with other sites. AS is very supportive and open. Welcome.
  10. I feel like I won't ever be unconditionally loved or find the love of my life. I am only 21, but it just seems so daunting. Everyone I've been close to I've either put a wall up or it's tragically fallen apart. I don't think I'll ever be able to let anyone love me or me love them. 

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    2. Bluesclues

      Bluesclues

      @MeBeMary blah. Thank you. 

    3. ActivistAlly

      ActivistAlly

      If you've never felt unconditionally loved than it might be inner child related?  We are all here supporting you.  As Mary says, you are worthy of love, to accept it and receive it.  (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))

    4. Bluesclues

      Bluesclues

      I'll bring this up next week in therapy. Thank you. @ActivistAlly

  11. Thank you for what you do and I'm sorry you know someone that was affected by this.
  12. @Confusedfred I'm so sorry for what you've been through but I'm glad you have found AS. Safe hugs if that's okay!
  13. I am so sorry this happened to you and so close to a special day. You have a great friend for referring you to this site, I'm glad you found it. Like they said it's normal to come to terms with it after some time. I'm just starting to come to terms with what happened four years ago and last year. So many safe hugs. Do you see a therapist? It has helped with processing everything and I've only had four sessions with this good one I've found. So many safe hugs, @Winnifred
  14. I'm so sorry your parents offered no support and I'm so sorry that a family member hurt you. I'm glad you have a friend who may understand knowing that she shared this site with you. So many safe hugs.
  15. I understand how you feel. I really do. What I have been told is to look at every time I go out as a win against my anxiety same with every minute I'm out or uncomfortable. It took a while to really get used to thi in g like that but it has helped a lot. I still cave into my anxiety everynow and then but it's significantly better than what it was before. So many safe hugs.