Back To say Thank You! in Public: Welcome! Posted June 19 Hi all! I was coming on here a couple years ago looking for help figuring out if my marriage was abusive. Surprise! It was. I told him I needed space and moved out on my own a year ago- thanks partly to getting individual therapy but just as much due to all the help I received on here. I’m so grateful for everyone’s repsonses during that time. It was what I needed. I never thought I would be able to make it on my own, but I’m actually doing better than ever on my own. And I’m working towards getting divoraced. Thank you After Silence and everyone who helped me.