Hello everyone, I'm new here... for the past 26-27 years i have been keeping a secret. My childhood was taken away from me. I was molested and r****d by the houseboy repeatedly and my parents didn't know about it,.. after 2 years my parents divorced and kept all that secret by myself.. it was terrible and I believed that what happened to me made me enter into bad relationships and loss of self confidence. A few days ago i told my secret to my best friend and advised me to forgive not because my molester deserved it, but I deserved to be at peace and to finally acknowledge the fact that i too, can move on and finally get on with my life and it is not my fault what had happened... i was just a child.. now i am trying my best to heal and get on with my life... how do i begin? What do i need to do?