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Icanseeclearlynow

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About Icanseeclearlynow

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    Female
  • Location
    England
  • Interests
    People, pets and finding a way to truly love myself, as I am, because that is the route to healing and when I truly love myself I can truly love my nearest and dearest instead of venting my anger at them and at myself when I'm not coping.

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About Me

Wife, mother, friend, work colleague, no longer sister or daughter.  Still working life out.

Spent my teens forgiving (to avoid self destruction) and forgetting (alcohol etc) my abuse

Spent my twenties pretending I was completely unaffected, so easy because no one can tell when you pretend to be fine and you delude yourself too.

Spent my thirties anger building as I discovered how much abuse there actually was in my life

Spent my forties (because I had growing children and needed to understand myself) learning through various therapies that I was affected and how it was impacting on my life, who I am and my relationships with everyone including myself.

Spending my fifties continuing to heal myself better so I can be the person I want to be and heal my relationships with my nearest and dearest.

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