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tlr3715

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  1. so, My grandfather died and my abuser is coming to the funeral... I don't know how to feel about that. 

    1. tlr3715

      tlr3715

      I'm so glad it worked out. It was very brave of you to go and I'm glad you can say you made the right choice after it 🙂

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  2. so, My grandfather died and my abuser is coming to the funeral... I don't know how to feel about that. 

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      tlr3715

      That moment will be about closure between you and your Grandfather. Do not let anything or anyone get in the way of that. If you are forced to interact with anyone who caused you suffering, face it with as much strength as you can muster. Know that the moment will pass allowing you to focus again on the relationship you had with your Grandfather. Be strong and you will do fine :)

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  3. When your friend tries to make you feel better and end up making you feel worse....

    No one understands :( 

    1. tlr3715

      tlr3715

      I saw your post about your mother. I know many people who have gone through the same thing. Don't worry about what other people think unless you know that their opinions are wise and heart felt. Let your own conscience tell you how to be a good friend and person. In the end you will be much stronger for it than those that had an easier time. Stick with it, try to be as positive as you can, and gravitate toward people who are good for you and someday you will look back on this time in your life and be proud of how far you have come.

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