Hello everyone, I hope this is the right place for me. I am a guy in my late 20s and my younger sister recently disclosed to me something that had happened to her. I have been having a really hard time dealing with this and things I now know because of this. I'm having a hard time coping and someone recommended I try posting on AS because they also have support for secondary survivors. I am afraid because I don't want to take away from anyone else's voice, especially anyone who has actually survived something themselves. I've barely been able to speak with my sister since I found out, she tells me that it was 14 years ago and says she has processed everything she needs to process, though she did tell me that she knew I would be going through something right now, and that it was ok to talk to people about it or share as I needed to get support.