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Iheartcupcakes

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    One Tough Cupcake - She/Her

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    Texas
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    baking (hence my username :), Spanish, social justice, singing, dog rescue.

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  1. VASQUEZ HAYES is a monster. He's scum, and I hope prison for him is hell just like what he has put me through was and is. Sorry...I just had to let that out to people who will understand and not roll their eyes at me for saying it again and again...

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    2. lexip

      lexip

      cupcakes NO ONE can ever expect you to be healed, you got justice but you still have to heal, and that is a long, long journey, I am still healing and my trial, ended 6 years ago now!! For me my healing didn't even begin until after the trial and even then I self medicated for years! Please be careful hun not to set yourself up for a fall so to speak, take care of you, know that this process can be a slow one and that's ok! you have been to hell and back, its ok "not to be ok" and to still feel the feelings/emotions that your feeling!

    3. oceonwaves

      oceonwaves

      @Iheartcupcakes do they segregate them for thir safety there, lets hope the wardens forget to do this on regular basis. Amazing how their safety becomes an issue, what about your safety when he was roaming around freely with weapon.

      well I bet he does not feel power and control now:laugh3:

      Healing is so one step forward and 4 steps back  .  Play Lady Gaga's oscar performance to anyone that has stupid unhelpful comments which tends to be numerous people.

    4. rebeccam

      rebeccam

      You're in kind of a tough situation because your experiences have put you in a position to mentor and support so many other people (which is amazing). But I agree with everyone here, no one expects you to be "healed" or "better" or "fixed," and I totally get that even something like the (somewhat) successful end of the trial, while important, isn't going to be some sort of finish line for you. You can rant about him as much as you like. :throb: :lindybunnie:

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