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I find myself at a cross road, whether to stay or leave my marriage. I was a victim of incest from 3 yrs old to 14 yrs old by my grandfather, an uncle, a friend and his son. Because they threatened me with lies and later because I was brought up to believe that you're supposed to rely on God to handle it all, I never said anything and went through the motions of living, including getting married in 1992. In 2001, I found myself in front of the church elders and my husband. He told them that he committed adultery and didn't want to be married to me anymore because I never wanted to have sex.