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LuthienTinuviel

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  1. LuthienTinuviel

    got something out *breathes a sight of relief*

     

    1. Bluesclues

      Bluesclues

      Good for you. Safe hugs 

    2. oceonwaves

      oceonwaves

      that is lovely to breathe a sigh of relief :)

  2. LuthienTinuviel

    :tear:

    1. tuliptorn

      tuliptorn

      :comfort::comfort::comfort:

      Sitting with you if okay.

    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      @tuliptorn:console:

    3. Dahliaa

      Dahliaa

      :console:

  3. LuthienTinuviel

    You would think someone who studied paralegal would not be horribly gaslighty :(

    1. oceonwaves

      oceonwaves

      it is sad that gas lighting  is common . for years was not even aware of what it was, not true now.

    2. oceonwaves

      oceonwaves

      do you realise that your date of birth can be seen here spring in the 80's? march

      can you see my dob on profile, I know it says can only be seen by ourselves

    3. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      Sometimes

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  4. LuthienTinuviel

    Gaslighting and spiritual abuse today? Maybe? 

  5. LuthienTinuviel

    My head hurts :*( 

  6. LuthienTinuviel

    I was just singing "unbreak my heart" to my bird lol 

    1. limbodante

      limbodante

      I used to sing Pennies from Heaven to my dogs :)

    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      :hug: aww. 

  7. LuthienTinuviel

    i want to be tiny so i can sit with my bird next to her. i want her to be my friend again :(

     

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      :hug: 

    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      :hug:

    3. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hope your doing okay friend?

      :):hug: 

  8. LuthienTinuviel

    Quick update . Mom wants a family meeting but I'm staying silent 

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hope your okay :):hug: 

  9. LuthienTinuviel

    no one can see me because im a ghost.

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Nope I can see you , your definitely not a ghost here :hug: 

    2. limbodante

      limbodante

      I come from a family of mediums and spiritualists... just saying :P

  10. LuthienTinuviel

    because someone wanted to waste my time i missed my rainn session. an dnow im brutally confused. 

    1. BraveOne

      BraveOne

      Sorry BLT safe hugs

    2. Juniperberry1900

      Juniperberry1900

      Sorry blt

    3. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      Thanks @Oneinamillion

      @Juniperberry1900

  11. LuthienTinuviel

    close both my eyes with your dear hands; so that everything that i suffer goes to rest under your hand. and as silently the pain, wave by wave, goes to sleep; as the last blow falls you fill my whole heart.

  12. LuthienTinuviel

    debating whether to try rainn today or not. i waited last night behind 12 people and quickly moved to behind 2 and that was almost an hour of that. i gave up.

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hey hope your okay :) 

      I am around if you wanna talk :wink: 

    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      :)

    3. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      :) 

  13. LuthienTinuviel

    Ouch :(

     

  14. LuthienTinuviel

    Narcissism and gaslighting is tiring. I feel like I'm getting worse. 

  15. LuthienTinuviel

    "no one cares about ptsd. move on"

    1. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      no im supposed to move on. and i can. it is a small thing really but idk :(

    2. Bluesclues

      Bluesclues

      Well you aren't "supposed" to do anything other than how your body is responding. You don't every have to do what other people are telling you to do/bugse. I mean your mind lingers on something for a reason. 

      Safe hugs

    3. limbodante

      limbodante

      It's possible to move on, but it takes time, and anyone who tells you your feelings don't matter are unworthy of you.

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  16. LuthienTinuviel

    another advice status lol

    do you think $120 a year is too much in dues to be in a choir? i think it is possible for me but i dont know

    1. snmls

      snmls

      I can't tell you what is too much money for you to pay, but I can say if choir is something that makes you happy and relieves stress then it may be a good investment.  We all need a healthy outlet, choir sounds like a good one!

    2. MermaidGirl91

      MermaidGirl91

      If you think about its only $10 a month, so I think its reasonable.

    3. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      That does seem reasonable.  $120.00 for the year with the break down $10.00 a month.  That isn't bad at all.  

  17. LuthienTinuviel

    i guess i wont waste a post. i have a question about therapy and counseling. do you t hink it looks bad if a counselor or T has another job outside of therapy?

     

     

    1. Juniperberry1900

      Juniperberry1900

      some therapists work in more than one job, as a therapist and as other things, for variety and even to make ends meet. Please do not take her response personally. It likely is not. 

    2. limbodante

      limbodante

      I don't think it's odd that a t would have a separate job, bit yeah she sounds like she had a strop on at the time

    3. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      Some T's do work for different places. Her response seems odd.  Safe hugs to you 

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  18. LuthienTinuviel

    Are people serious? 

    1. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      Found the same thing today. I just gave them a look.  Lol. :hug:to you 

    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      :hug: @Painnbroken

    3. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

       Thanks dear 

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  19. LuthienTinuviel

    Damaged 

    1. limbodante

      limbodante

      Loved

  20. LuthienTinuviel

    One of my flaws is expecting people to know what I'm thinking and what connects. But being silenced made it worse. I hint because I'm unsure of saying the real thing :(

    1. tuliptorn

      tuliptorn

      I know it's scary but do the opposite. We don't know the kettle is boiling if it ain't whistling. It may be yea or nay, but you deserve to give yourself the honor of voice. 

      Be safe and kind to you today.:flowers:

  21. LuthienTinuviel

    Probably gaslit everyday

    1. snmls

      snmls

      I'm sorry.  My mom has gaslit me my whole life.  I know how awful it is and how it makes you feel crazy. 

  22. LuthienTinuviel

    Triggered and fearful 

    1. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      :hug:and sitting with you 

    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      :hug: @Painnbroken

    3. BraveOne

      BraveOne

      Sorry BLT safe hugs :hug::comfort::flowers:

  23. LuthienTinuviel

    Did something stupid . When will I learn? 

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Oh safe hugs :hug: 

      hope your okay BLT?

    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      I'll hang in there 

    3. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Ok :tear:  Hope you feel better soon.

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  24. LuthienTinuviel

    sad and triggered

    1. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      :hug:

    2. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      :hug:if ok 

    3. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      :hug: @Painnbroken

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  25. LuthienTinuviel

    Church sucks monkey..

     

    Tonight

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