LuthienTinuviel

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  1. i feel always shrugged off...as if im nothing and not worth any effort.

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    2. loveable

      loveable

      You are worth it blt :) reject those self criticizing thoughts it's just the messages the abusers reinforced. I struggle with negative self talk too. Sitting with you, if okay

    3. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      thank you both 

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Your welcome :wink: 

  2. :tear:

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    2. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      You're welcome hon. I understand completely the struggles.  You're not alone please know that.  Sitting with you and hugs to go with it. 

    3. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      @Painnbroken :hug:

      going through a thing that i feel more isolated or abandoned....

    4. oceonwaves

      oceonwaves

      so sorry you feel isolated and abondoned :(:hug::comfort:

  3. im not a friend worth fihgting for apparently

    1. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      Apparently I'm not even wrong :'( 

  4. I'm sick but can't afford to call out :(

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    2. Juniperberry1900
    3. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      I'm sorry love. Chicken soup for you. :hug:I do hope you begin to feel better soon. 

    4. LuthienTinuviel
  5. my stomach hurts :(

    1. Dahliaa

      Dahliaa

      :console: Hope you feel better soon :) 

  6. feeling unwell.....

    1. josiel

      josiel

      If ok, :hug:...hope you feel better soon.

    2. LuthienTinuviel
  7. Job interview today

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    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      thank you @snmls and @Painnbroken

      im kind of anxious a bit to hear the outcome.

    3. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      Crossing my fingers for ya

    4. LuthienTinuviel
  8. I ruin everything

    1. tuliptorn

      tuliptorn

      Doubt that highly, but I've been there.:console::console::console:

    2. LuthienTinuviel
    3. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      :hug: sitting with you.

  9. 🐦 is so cute 

  10. got something out *breathes a sight of relief*

     

    1. Bluesclues

      Bluesclues

      Good for you. Safe hugs 

    2. oceonwaves

      oceonwaves

      that is lovely to breathe a sigh of relief :)

  11. You would think someone who studied paralegal would not be horribly gaslighty :(

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    2. oceonwaves

      oceonwaves

      it is sad that gas lighting  is common . for years was not even aware of what it was, not true now.

    3. oceonwaves

      oceonwaves

      do you realise that your date of birth can be seen here spring in the 80's? march

      can you see my dob on profile, I know it says can only be seen by ourselves

    4. LuthienTinuviel
  12. Gaslighting and spiritual abuse today? Maybe? 

  13. My head hurts :*( 

  14. I was just singing "unbreak my heart" to my bird lol 

    1. limbodante

      limbodante

      I used to sing Pennies from Heaven to my dogs :)

    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      :hug: aww. 

  15. i want to be tiny so i can sit with my bird next to her. i want her to be my friend again :(

     

    1. Free2Fly
    2. LuthienTinuviel
    3. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hope your doing okay friend?

      :):hug: 

  16. Quick update . Mom wants a family meeting but I'm staying silent 

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hope your okay :):hug: 

  17. no one can see me because im a ghost.

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Nope I can see you , your definitely not a ghost here :hug: 

    2. limbodante

      limbodante

      I come from a family of mediums and spiritualists... just saying :P

  18. because someone wanted to waste my time i missed my rainn session. an dnow im brutally confused. 

  19. close both my eyes with your dear hands; so that everything that i suffer goes to rest under your hand. and as silently the pain, wave by wave, goes to sleep; as the last blow falls you fill my whole heart.

  20. debating whether to try rainn today or not. i waited last night behind 12 people and quickly moved to behind 2 and that was almost an hour of that. i gave up.

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hey hope your okay :) 

      I am around if you wanna talk :wink: 

    2. LuthienTinuviel
    3. Free2Fly
  21. Narcissism and gaslighting is tiring. I feel like I'm getting worse. 

  22. "no one cares about ptsd. move on"

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    2. LuthienTinuviel

      LuthienTinuviel

      no im supposed to move on. and i can. it is a small thing really but idk :(

    3. Bluesclues

      Bluesclues

      Well you aren't "supposed" to do anything other than how your body is responding. You don't every have to do what other people are telling you to do/bugse. I mean your mind lingers on something for a reason. 

      Safe hugs

    4. limbodante

      limbodante

      It's possible to move on, but it takes time, and anyone who tells you your feelings don't matter are unworthy of you.

  23. another advice status lol

    do you think $120 a year is too much in dues to be in a choir? i think it is possible for me but i dont know

    1. snmls

      snmls

      I can't tell you what is too much money for you to pay, but I can say if choir is something that makes you happy and relieves stress then it may be a good investment.  We all need a healthy outlet, choir sounds like a good one!

    2. MermaidGirl91

      MermaidGirl91

      If you think about its only $10 a month, so I think its reasonable.

    3. Painnbroken

      Painnbroken

      That does seem reasonable.  $120.00 for the year with the break down $10.00 a month.  That isn't bad at all.