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I can totally relate to this. I buried my pain and paranoia under a fat suit for 15 years. It felt safe for the same reason you described. Just recently lost most of it and the pain and paranoia are back. That's why I'm here. Thank you for putting this fear into words. It helps me to see that someone else understands it and you've given me some important insight. We both deserve to be happy.