First of all Jamie, welcome to AS!
I'd like to suggest to you that you move this post into one of the protected forums, such as "Share Your Story." This forum is public, and as a member you can post things in private forums. There's no need to move it, only if it would make you feel more comfortable knowing that only AS members can see the post.
Now down to business.
I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I'm soooooo proud of you for reporting him to the police strait off, and having the courage to prosecute, despite how painful it is right now. I can say that I think you are making a good decision for yourself. When it's over, you will be able to breathe a sigh of relief, knowing you have done your best.
You can survive this. You are strong. I can tell without even meeting you, from your words, and your presence here at AS.
safe <---If okay