heyla!
first off, welcome to AS. i am so sorry about what has happened to you, but this is such a wonderfully healing place.
okay, well, i am in the process of pressing charges myself. my rape was a year ago, so it is much more complicated than most cases. but all i can say to help is that you have to keep asking questions. make sure that you keep yourself updated- make phone calls to the detectives to see what is happening.
i know you said you are not patient, but you have to be. things like this can take forever, name or no. just know that they are doing the best they can to help you fin