so sorry your turning 18 under these circumstances. I'm very sorry too that the cop said what he did? Thats not right. I too was molested by my father for six years. I haven't told anyone, well, atleast in my immediate family, told a few friends but nothing really came of it, no one turned into my hero. I'm here for you any time you want to talk. try to enjoy your birthday, do something fun you like to do! its your day!! I remember my 18th, i'm 30 now, time goes by so quick. But my memories are so fresh of my younger years. I wish i could say it gets easier with age. But stay strong and know your not alone. Take care hun, and happy birthday!!