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  1. Feeling down because I didn't get the job. The interview seemed to go well so I don't know what happened.... I tried not to get my hopes up, but...😢. I'm in such a hopeless situation

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    2. Capulet


      @sweetfeather5 - please don't beat yourself up - I am sure you were an excellent candidate for the job and although this opportunity didn't work out, there will be plenty of others - look at it this way, if it will help, friend - but perhaps there's something even better coming your way and this just wasn't meant to be.  Try to be gentle and patient with yourself (I know, easier said than done!) and don't give up hope. ❤️ 

    3. mini.finch


      Sitting with you, sweetfeather. ❤️ I'm sorry that you didn't get the job, but as Cap said, please don't beat yourself up over it. There will be many more jobs out there that you can apply to. And they might be way better! You did awesome, just the fact that you applied and had an interview. I'm proud of you. :) Take it easy.

    4. Violinplayer


      Hey, I am so sorry for you. I get the feeling since I was looking for a new at the end of last year and didn't get it at first. But then the next two interviews were good and I had choice between two jobs. You'll get a job you like! A friend back then said to me: Maybe this wasn't supposed to be "the" job and the right job will become available soon!

  2. Hi @Maksim Welcome to AS! This forum is full of people who have experienced a variety of things, so I think you will fit in more than you realise. I think you are lucky to have experienced something you feel hasn't given you trauma, but I'm sorry you had to experience something at all that has made you look back on it with suspicion. Hopefully you'll be able to find what you need here that will help you better define those experiences.
  3. It's so hard to move upwards when the world seems designed to keep people down

    1. snmls


      Sitting with you. I get the feeling.

  4. No progress is demoralising

    1. MeBeMary



      Sometimes it feels that way, but when you keep fighting, it is progress.

      Sitting with you.

    2. sweetfeather5
  5. It's raining. I like rainy nights because the staccato helps to bring the world back in and suppress the dark thoughts, unlike a silent night. 

  6. Feeling scared about a bleak future and longing for human connection. 

    1. MeBeMary


      You deserve a brighter future, try not to give up on the possibility. Keep fighting for it.

      Sitting with you. :hug: if ok. 

    2. Capulet


      We are here for you, @sweetfeather5.  Please know that you are not alone.  Mary is right - you deserve wonderful things and genuine connections...do not give up on your search.  These are things more easily found than a lot of the other things we may be looking for.  You need only ask. :)

      Sitting with you, as well.

    3. sweetfeather5


      Thank you. I appreciate the hugs and hopeful words 😊

  7. Sleep is always good though! Ilove to burrow under the covers.I splurged on a really nice dress just for a social meet up this weekend. My bank decided to not work today so a really good friend of mine who still has about half of my money paid for it for me. And the nice assistant gave me a discount even though I didn't have a magazine. Plus, I didn't spend the whole day struggling to choose an outfit!
  8. It may make him crazy, but I know it will make him suffer too: You can never have me Though I wonder if I can say it with the confidence it needs. Otherwise: Listen again arsehole: Go away!
  9. Everyone, thank you for the warm welcome! Mandy, if I have any questions I'll be sure to ask you!
  10. Hi all, I've been lurking around the boards to make myself comfortable before diving in here. You all seem so lovely and supportive, but I thought I'd introduce myself first before replying to people's posts. Hi, I'm Sweetfeather5. (^-^)/
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