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  1. Welcome @Heretoheal to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  2. 7 hours ago, Jazzyjojo said:

    Hi 8888 and thank you.

    I don't understand this guy's problem. Every time I'm due to sign in to start my shift he turns up mere minutes after - and when I stay on for the later shifts he too stays on with me through Skype. It's just freaky.

    I like him personally and I would like to think that he simply just likes me, just that it seems to be more obsessive. I spoke to other people and they say to me "he finds you attractive", "he likes you", "why don't you talk to the guy and go on a date?" If anything were to happen between us, it'd be as friends - I don't want to break my wedding vows - but because of what's been going on, I get the feeling he wants more than that. He knows that I'm married, too. He is still single and has lived on his own since moving out of his mum's about 3/4 years ago (my friends told me this without me even asking).

    It's gradually become a police matter now - not just from what he did to me 3/4 years ago at work but also because I've got reason to believe he's been asking a certain friend of mine to send him photos of me as a child and to get some idea of my whereabouts. This friend knows what car I own, roughly where I live and who my family members are (since she is friends of my mum's.) What I don't understand, though, is what would make my friend complicit with him. She too, knows I'm married and we were really good work buddies. It doesn't make sense.

    That does sound obsessive to me.  I'm sorry to hear this is happening.  This is the public welcome forum so it's best not to get too into detail here but you can PM me anytime or start a separate thread in one of our private forums.  

  3. Welcome @Tapestry to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  4. Welcome @Phoenix55 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  5. Welcome @blove to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  I too have unclear memories.  It doesn't make what happened to you any less valid or terrible.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  6. Welcome @Spruce2583 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  7. Welcome @Hufflepuff03 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  8. Welcome @Jazzyjojo to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  9. Welcome @daya1996 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  10. Welcome @Mermaid_hair to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  11. Welcome @mini.finch to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  It's understandable to be nervous posting here.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  12. Welcome @LovelyBee to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  13. Welcome @houndst00th to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Distractions can be good to help in the moment, some other posters offered some good suggestions or anything that brings you joy really.  I would also recommend trying to process the trauma with a therapist as Wanna suggested.   As my therapist says therapy can help you put the trauma is a sort of mental filing cabinet where it can be accessed but isn't in the forefront of your mind all the time.  Take your time exploring here and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  14. Welcome @GoldDustGypsy to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  15. Welcome @ambi419 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Processing trauma can be extremely helpful.  You may want to look for a therapist who has experience with trauma.  Other things that can help are this forum, journaling, art, or mindfulness, to name a few.  Not all the same things work for everybody unfortunately but hopefully this forum will give you some ideas of some things that work for you.  Take your time exploring here and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  16. Welcome @Novu to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  There's no rush to talk about anything but hopefully when you feel ready it will be beneficial for you.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  17. Welcome @ToyahW to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Reporting is a very personal decision.  We are here to support you in whatever you decide.  Take your time exploring here and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  18. Welcome @PhoenixinCa to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  19. Welcome @JustMe... to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  20. Welcome @NewLifeNewMe to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  21. Welcome @Akashalilium to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me.  Also, don't worry about your English, we understand.

  22. Welcome @ForeverRecovering to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault. Yes, we do welcome males.  Although there are more females here we do have some male members, including two male staff members.  In fact, there is even a male survivors forum under the Survivor Connections category.  Take your time exploring here and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  23. Welcome @goldfinch to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  A child shouldn't ever have to experience something sexual.  You are welcome here.  Don't worry if English isn't your first language, we understand.  Take your time exploring here and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  24. Welcome @janedoe45 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

  25. Welcome @Pickles123 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

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