Hi, welcome. Its good you want to be there for your girlfriend. My husband found this site and showed it to me, and I didn't sign up at first, then when I did I kinda hung back a little. But I'm glad I did sign up now, it has helped me a lot being here with others who understand what I'm feeling and going through.
Now we're both members here, he's also a secondary survivor, so you're not alone. And if your girlfriend is ever up to it, I think this site could help her out a lot too. Anyway, hope all goes well with you and her. OH and by the way, your daughter is cute!