It should just be along a bar at the top. It should be right beside the "Forums" tag. If not...I think you might need to have 10 posts before you can access it? Not sure about that though, I might have made that up
Was patient with myself while on the verge of a panic attack last night and let myself have what i needed. And let myself sleep on the couch for a second night in a row even though i think it's silly I can fall asleep there but not in my bed.