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    Puppies, dogs, pit bulls, kittens, mongoose, deer, ummm.... animals! Lol!

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  1. I’ve been doing the same. I came here to feel comfort and realized I’m seeing sadness. I think we need to make a change. I do, anyway.
  2. Popping in to say hi and let you know you are important and we appreciate you :)

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    2. coffeeaddict


      Ok if I follow you? 

    3. BrightSide


      That is exactly what it feels like! Oh it would be nice to cry and have a long tight, safe cuddle before they go. Thank you for your honesty and support in this 💛 you can always PM me too.

      And yes you can follow, I used to think it was creepy but I understand now how following allows you to support friends. :friends2:


    4. coffeeaddict


      It would be so nice! I love the idea so much :)  I saw my friends and was sooo jealous, lol!

      As of now, I’m glad I can check in and be here if you are needing to vent :)

  3. I love making jewelry some chainmaille, but mostly pendants. sewing (mostly machine now, but I hand sew, still, as well) and knitting, too. i think these hobbies are calming for the overwhelmed mind. welcome to AS!
  4. May I sit here for a little while?

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    2. coffeeaddict


      I am ok.  I have very few people in RL, so I guess I look for safe spots online to hide and try to heal.  Thank you for letting me sit here for a while!  Hope you’re safe and well!

    3. BrightSide


      Me too, AS is definitely the best place to hang, feel safe and heal. Im not very social in RL either I get too much anxiety. You are welcome to hang here, Im glad of the company. I am OK too thanks for asking 🧡 B

    4. coffeeaddict


      Yay! Thank you!

  5. I tend to come and go... I’ve learned that this will always be my journey. Sometimes I need to embrace my past, and sometimes I need to live my present.  If we are friends, just send me a PM so we can discuss communicating off-site.

  6. I miss you 😘 

  7. 👋 👋

    1. orangegiraffe


      🙋‍♀️ Hi coffeeaddict! I remember you!! 😁

    2. coffeeaddict
  8. I’m not sure if you still come to this site. I didn’t for so long that I barely know anyone. 

    I don’t really know you at all, but I love Claire. If you ever need a friend I’m here for you. 

    1. winterwishes


      Hey @coffeeaddict nice to see you. Feel free to message me 


  9. I finally watched the last couple of seasons. I'm literally hoping my hubby doesn't hear my sobs as I type this. I miss you. So much!  I wish I could've fixed it. I knew I couldn't, but you were there for me and honest. I wanted to bring you hope. I'm sorry I failed and I love you always 💗 

    1. fallenstar


      :throb::candle:you did not fail her. it looks to me like you were a great friend to her. sending you some support, @coffeeaddict

    2. coffeeaddict


      I tried, but I couldn’t show her how beautiful she was! Her Love was so pure and true. So innocent despite her pain. She would do anything for her friends but never seemed to truly believe that we absolutely loved her back! Thank you so much for the support !  I just miss her and her number is gone bc I broke my old phone. So I now tell her I love her here, as if AS has afterlife communication 😂 I’m silly.

  10. I wanted to watch the last two seasons of Once, but it feels so strange to not talk to you after each episode! I miss you so much!  

  11. I don't know if you can see this or not... But I miss you all the time.  Finally started watching season 5 and think of you every episode.  I hope you're doing well! <3

  12. Hi and welcome to AS! If you're looking for support, you've definitely come to the right place . Glad you've found this site, and sorry for the reasons that brought you heref
  13. ^^^^I agree^^^^^ It would be so great to have a place where we can open up about grief of any type - loss of friends, family, etc or just our grief about what we've lost due to our abuse. somewhere that is safe for us to vent and not worry about triggering the others here. Somewhere we know is just for that. It's so helpful to know that specific forum is for a specific purpose. It makes me feel ok with posting things I'd otherwise refrain from typing for worry that I'd upset someone.
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