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chant2012

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  1. I need to talk but I don't want to trigger anyone

    1. chant2012

      chant2012

      Hey there, i/we have been having a rough time too with "bad dates" and possible pr*gr*mm*ng, it's pretty definite now tho... and such. We've been gone for a long time - feel free to reach out. You're not alone. All the love to you and support also. 

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  2. I have not been on here for a while now and I seem to have shifted in personally. It has been six months ago I acknowledged I am the person I have been talking talking about. I am sorta out f control. I am grounded for several days now but I am so scared of loosing all of my last 15 years with the man i love. I need him like I need air. He helps me through my darkest moments be is always there.

    oh sorry I was wondering how this site works its not how it use to be. I can not seem to get around or find anyone I talked to. I was happy i found you. How are you by the way.

    1. chant2012

      chant2012

      Hello and thanks for stopping by! Sorry to hear you're struggling. Feel free to send me a PM. Would love to talk :) 

  3. how do I chat/I am new to this!

    1. chant2012

      chant2012

      :wave:Hello! Sorry I am so late to getting back to you. :sor: 

       

      Chatting - as in you are wanting to participate in a live chat with other members? :type: 

       

      If if that's the case, it depends whether you're using a desktop/laptop or a mobile smartphone. 

       

      If you're using a desktop:

      •On the left hand side of the screen, at the top there is a button that says "chat". Click it. 

       

      If you're using a mobile smartphone:

      •Scroll to the top of the screen, you will see a few icons/buttons, click the one that looks like 3 horizontal bars. Next, click the button that says "browse". From that drop-down click "chat". :) 

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  4. Today having a really rough time. Feel like its happening all over again. I hate my vivid brain. 

  5. feeling very low today guys any advice on how i can escape the feeling of being totally humiliated about my so called friends standing up in the middle of the pub announcing that i was raped :(

    1. chant2012

      chant2012

      How could this be your fault? You had no control over the r*pe happening and you definitely had no control over what your friends did. You weren't even there! I am so sorry that they did this... How awful. Sitting with you. ♥

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  6. Hey there Kevin. I know birthdays can be a trigger for many survivors and I apologize. I have been debating whether or not to wish you a happy birthday because I didn't want to bring up a day that may trigger you... But, I felt it was rude if I didn't say anything. So, "Happy Birthday!!!" in the best way possible. I hope you did something good for yourself today! Sometimes on anniversary days, we have to make good memories in place of the bad ones and let those...

    1. chant2012

      chant2012

      (Cont.)

      ...define the 'bad/triggery' days. I hope this is not offensive. Blessings, love, prayers, and support to you! :)

      Much love and support, your friend, Chantel ♥

  7. Call me Lin

    1. chant2012

      chant2012

      OK, I knew Dragongirl wasn't your real name lol. Well, I didn't figure it was. You can call me Chantel. :)

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