[Making Changes In My Life]

I hope it helps you.

[Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!]

The only "friend" I trusted for a long time violated my privacy with details related to the incident, spreading them to someone else (probably using them as a prop in some cattiness towards me) and tried to apologize a year later with the excuse of "I couldn't see you as being hurt". because I always kept my composure before this, I guess.

and then, as if this genuinely explained everything, told me "I couldn't see you as being human".

I know it's not much compared to a lot of the previous replies from people in this thread, but I've spent the last year feeling inferior to everyone, like some ghost of a person, and every time I think about this response, it hurts more. I'm human. I'm human. Why can't I deserve the same decency as anybody else?

[5 Words To Your Perpetrator]

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[Work Issues Forum?]

This is a good idea. What if you made it work/school? I know a lot of users probably have to deal with college or even high school, too.

[A Little Scared.]

It's a great place to start. I haven't been here too long either, and I've been totally amazed at how supportive people are to each other. There's a lot of really useful topics and kind people.

I hope it helps you too.

[Dear Me]

editing out.

[Introductions]

Congrats on making it so far already. This forum's about as friendly and understanding as anything I've seen online, so I hope you find what you're looking for.

[From Victim To Survivor To Thriver]

I'm new to the forum and figuring out what happened/how to move on, and I never thought that so much of what's going on could be universal like this. I thought it was just me. This chart scared me a little, but I'm glad I saw it so I could figure out what's just me and what's bad aftermath that I might be able to work past. I had all all victim with a few middle ones and maybe two that just didn't apply all-around.

Thanks for posting it.