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  1. (((Mouse)))Welcome to After Silence. I am so happy you found us. I am looking forward to getting to know you. I wish you didn't have a reason to be here, but I am glad that you are here. Take your time in getting comfortable here. Take precious care of yourself. Tink
  2. new

    Hi Moonsmile and welcome to After Silence! This is such a wonderful, supportive place to be. I wish you didn't have a reason to be here, but I'm happy you found us. I look forward to getting to know you. Take your time looking around and getting comfortable here. Know that you are not alone here. Take precious care of yourself, Tink
  3. Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!

    (Lilea) Nurses should never say things like that, no one should.... The nurses that I worked with never made comments like that ever! I can't believe some people! If my co-workers would have made comments like that around me I think I would have taken it to our administrator because as nurses, we should know better. Plus you never know when a patient is lurking arond a corner. I am sorry that you have to work with shuch jerks. It's not cool.
  4. Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!

    (((Lindy)))What an as* hole! I am so sorry. grrrrrrrrrr....people like that piss me off.
  5. Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!

    a friend said this to me today... "Cheer up, things can only get so bad. If you have a smile on your face all the time things are bound to get better." ...yeah, thanks ass hole. I thought things couldn't get any worse before and look, here we are at worse...what's the next stop, Hell?! Keep a smile on my face? Well let me just pull out my lipstick and paint it on cause I feel like the corners of my mouth are about to touch my feet. Got any clips I could use to clip my mouth up into a smile?
  6. Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!

    ....hmmm....sounds like we know people in common. Like if we look all gross and nasty people will leave us alone, how nice. I have had this one said to me many times...it pisses me off every time.
  7. hello everyone

    (((Kelsie)))Welcome to After Silence. I am sorry for all the pain you have gone through. I am glad that your mom found us and I am happy that you decided to post here. Take your time and get comfortable here. I hope you will find this place as wonderful and supportive as I have. We are truly blessed with wonderful members here. I am looking forward to getting know you. If you need anything feel free to ask. Take precious care of yourself. Tracy
  8. hi everyone

    (((Carol))) I am happy to see that you found After Silence, welcome! I am sorry that you have a reason for being here but I am glad you found us. I'm looking forward to getting to know you, you are not alone here. Take precious care. Tracy
  9. newbie

    (((Masta))) Welcome to After Silence. We are glad you found us. Can't wait to get to know you. We are all here for you, take precious care. Tracy
  10. hi

    Hi Betty and welcome to After Silence. I am so sorry to hear about the pain that you have had to go through. I am happy that you found this place. I hope you will find it as supportive and helpful as I have. This is a wonderful place to talk things out. I am looking forward to getting to know you. If there is anything I can do let me know. Take precious care of yourself. Tracy
  11. to all the new

    I have been out of things for the past few days and it looks like I have missed out on a lot here. I just wanted to tell you all hi and welcome to After Silence. I am sorry that you all have a reason for being here but I am so happy that you have found us! This is such a wonderful, supportive place to be and heal. I am looking forward to getting to know you all. Take precious care of yourselves. *safe hugs* Tracy
  12. hellow

    Hi Freeman and welcome to After Silence. I am sorry to hear that you have carried around your pain in silence for so long. This is a wonderful, safe, supportive place to be. Take your time looking around and getting comfortable here. I am looking forward to getting to know you. Know that you are not alone, we are here for you. Take precious care of yourself. Tracy
  13. Hello

    Hi Pure and welcome to After Silence. I am glad you found us but I am sad that you had a reason for doing so. I am sorry to hear of the pain that you have gone through. I hope you will find this place as safe, comforting, and supportive as I have. Take your time looking around and getting comfortable here. I look forward to getting to know you. Take precious care of yourself. Tracy
  14. Bonjour

    Hi Internettie! Welcome to After Silence. I hope you will find that this is a good place to sort out and vent. This is a great place to get much needed support. I am happy that you found us but sorry you had a reason to look for us. Take care of yourself and take your time looking around and getting comfortable. Tracy
  15. Little about me

    Hi Elly J., welcome to After Silence! I am sorry to hear that you have a reason to be here but I am happy you found us. I know that it can be difficult to talk about things face to face with other people. I hope we are able to help and support you. You will find that this is a supportive and safe place...no one is judging or looking at you funny here. Take your time in looking around and getting comfortable here. We look forward to getting to know you better. Take care of yourself. Tracy
  16. a little unsure

    Hi Niki, welcome to After Silence. I am sorry that you have a reason to be here but I am happy that you found us. This is such a wonderful, supportive place to be. We are here for you, you are not alone. Take care of yourself. Tracy
  17. Hi!

    I sort of know how you feel...I am an only child and lived for the most part in a quiet house. I have been so use to "my time" that it has been a real adjustment being married...even though I am going on six years this 20th of March. I feel like I have no peace other than when my husband is deployed overseas...then I miss the loudness.
  18. Hello I am new here

    Hello Songbird, welcome to After Silence. I am so sorry to hear of all the pain that you have been through. We are glad that you found After Silence though. This is a wonderful, supportive, safe place to be. Take your time in looking around and getting comfortable. I hope we are able to help you in your journey of healing. This is a hard road to go down but know that you are not alone. We are here for you. If you need to talk I am online most of the time. Feel free to IM me or u2u me. Take care of yourself dear. Tracy
  19. I'm new here.

    Seventeen, welcome to After Silence. I am sad that you had to find a place like this but happy that you found us. This is a very supportive, safe place to be. I look forward to getting to know you. Take care of yourself and know that you are not alone! Tracy
  20. Hi!

    Hi Paddy Ann, welcome to After Silence. I am sorry that you have a reason to find a place like this but I am happy that you found us! This is such a wonderful, supportive place to be. I wish you well and look forward to getting to know you. Take care of yourself. Tracy
  21. new here

    dereliktdauter, welcome to After Silence! I am so happy that you found this place, it is such a safe, supportive place to be. I am sorry to hear what you have gone through. Know that you are not alone. It is good that you have broken the silence and started your journey of self-healing. We are here for you. Take care of yourself. Tracy
  22. hi there

    Hi Di, welcome to After Silence. I am sorry to hear that things are coming back. I am going through the same thing. I am glad you found this place and sad that you have a reason to seek such a place out. I don't know what to tell you as far as what to do about things coming back. I am learing that it is better out than in. It can be so hard and scarry. Do you have anyone close that you can talk to that you trust? Have you thought about going to a counsellor or therapist? Some times they can help out more than we realize. If there is anything I can do to help let me know, I'm online a lot. This is a wonderful, supportive place to be. Take good care of yourself. Tracy:)
  23. yet another new one

    Hi Boo and welcome to After Silence. I am sorry to hear what you have gone through. We all understand what it is like to feel alienated from the rest of the world. I am happy that you found this place. This is a very safe, comfortalbe place to talk, vent, and get the much needed support. You are not alone. Take your time looking around and getting comfortable. Take good care of yourself. Tracy
  24. I'm scared

    Hi there! Welcome to After Silence! Like Vera said so well, you are very wanted and welcomed here. This is a very safe place to come for support. I have not come across a single person here that hates someone right off the bat, so don't be scared. We welcome anyone that is in need of support and a shoulder to lean on. You are not alone here. If you get looking around you will see that there are other guys that post here from time to time. Just take some time to look around and get comfortable. You will soon see that this is a wonderful, safe place to be. Take care of yourself. Tracy:)
  25. 30 + years ago

    yes, stupidity is tragic and there is a lot of stupidity out in this world. There is also a lot of good in this world also...I have to remind myself of that all the time. Well, just give yourself time to heal and take care of yourself. We are here for you. Tracy
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