blackfrog

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About blackfrog

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  • Gender Female
  • Interests Right now my main interest is getting my memories back so I know what happened.

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  • Website URL http://ninotchka-upsidedownworld.blogspot.com/
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  1. Troubling Emoticon?

    Weird thing - I thought it might be a sensitive emoticon to many. But... I did like it. I thought of it as kind of cocooning yourself from the world - more of a safe place to be quiet and restful. But, as I said, I figured it would disturb many. Just do me a favor and never remove - it's one of my two favourites.
  2. New Idea For Sub-forum

    I would agree, but I don't want to jinx it! (but, I do think it's a great idea)
  3. Same with the winter skin. And the font on the winter skin went from an easy, legible bold font to a very, very thin font. I feel like I'm 85 and have trifocals trying to read everything.
  4. A Dragon Saved My Life

    I'm so glad you listened to Dragon (which is what she tends to go by)!!!!! I hope we can help you through your process of healing. I'm glad she gave you a piece of light to grab onto to make it here. Welcome, Ambi!
  5. Invalidation. Words Can Hurt!

    My mother-in-law: "Well, it takes a lot of love to forgive." Yeah, and seeing as I've hated my father for almost 30 years, what makes you think I'll forgive him?!? "Don't ask a question if you don't want the answer." (in regards to me trying to remember what happened to me) When did I say I didn't want the answers?! Maybe YOU don't want them so you can still think your rich, guarded life was worse than anyone's.... but I want the answers!!! My father-in-law before he knew: "You don't know what it's like to have a rough life. I had to drag my father in from the front lawn at night 'cause he was too drunk to make it in the house! That's a hard life!!!" (which led to him talking about him being hit - not belittling this AT ALL - just showing where the conversation went) My husband stopped my father-in-law one day (cause this is a common rant of his). This is how it went: "Well, you know, I had to drag..." "Yeah, Dad, I know... and *blackfrog* would trade places with you IN A SECOND!" "Oh..... I'm so sorry. Tell her I'm there if she ever needs to talk." At least that one had a happy ending. My mother: "Well, you must have misunderstood." Yeah, I misunderstood a 65 year old man groping the chest of a 16 year old girl and sticking his down down her throat - complete lack of miscommunication on my part. I'll be back for more - have company.
  6. Yet Another New "face"

    Apparently, when I lost my connection, it posted anyway. My apologies for the double post.
  7. Yet Another New "face"

    Just dropping in a note. I'm so new to all of this and still trying to discover where I fit. I'm going to need to ask a lot of questions because I'm still searching for the truth - still trying to find out what happened. Maybe I don't belong here, but I think only survivors can answer my many questions at this point. If anyone could guide me as to where I can start asking some hard questions, I would be grateful. So, hi.
  8. Yet Another New "face"

    Just dropping in a note. I'm so new to all of this and still trying to discover where I fit. I'm going to need to ask a lot of questions because I'm still searching for the truth - still trying to find out what happened. Maybe I don't belong here, but I think only survivors can answer my many questions at this point. If anyone could guide me as to where I can start asking some hard questions, I would be grateful. So, hi.